she is showing ''interest'' in you, however interest can be social or sexual, you have to escalate to figure out what sort of interest it is
there is no such thing as a sure thing, until you are balls deep, you will never know, you can have a girl absolutely hating on you who likes you, and you can have a girl flirting like crazy who has no intention of sleeping with you, compliance will tell you more then anything else, it is what she does, not what she says that is important
if you do have a girlfriend, you might as well be honest about it, chances are she has already made up her mind about that one no matter what you say, and if she knows already then you not answering her questions about it just seems like you have something to hide
you are either interested in her or you are not, if she has hangups about you being single or not is dependant on her and her moral stance on the issue, escalation will tell you if this is worth a shot or not, I suggest inviting her out if you are interested, if you get challenged with the girlfriend thing then just don't react and be upfront with something that holds congruent to your frame
you: lets go do xyz
her: don't you have a gf?
examples (do something that suites your personality)
''yes''
''for now, unless you turn out to be really awesome''
''currently yes''
''I have all kinds of girlfriends''
''is that a problem?''
''why?''
''no, things with her are not working out''
figure out what it is you want to communicate to her through your frame
just what ever you do, don't react to her little shit tests, don't make a big deal out of anything
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