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Author:  Johndigwood120 [ Tue Apr 17, 2012 6:02 pm ]
Post subject:  How to deal with this low sex frequency
Me and my GF are dating for 5 months and had sex about 1 month in the relationship (she was a virgin so it took a little longer) and i had ED problems because of porn (i stopped porn and now i have no problems finally)

So now after 5 months our sex life is really just getting started but the thing is now

She is in a very important period in school with exams coming up in about 1 month and she is only allowed to see me once a week so we usually only have sex once a week..

But i tend to take a lot of time on foreplay and stuff like that and then when it comes to the actual sex part we only have little time because i need to leave from her parents at like 1 in the night for example (teenage relationships.. lol, anyway. i really like her so help me out please)

I never had an orgasm with her, i made her orgasm but i have a hard time orgasm (ED problems, porn etc.) i could last for hours with my previous gf...

And now she had ''Spotting'' previous weekend so we couldn't have sex because she thinks its disgusting and stuff, now this week she is on her regular period so that means i will have had no sex for 21 days... While my sex drive is high..

And im wondering how i can help this, i know its just for this period of time cause she is very busy with exams and annoying + strict parents but come on 21 days... :lol:
Author:  Snarg [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 2:18 pm ]
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You won't be able to last as long if you don't have sex or masturbate as much, so maybe those 21 days will do you some good. Granted, it'll be pretty hard (look, a pun!) to go that long (and another!) without having sex, but think of it as therapeutic. How long are you spending on foreplay? I'm sure there's room to cut it back just a little bit.

If you don't like that idea, then fuck it. Just masturbate until her exams are over.

As for the period...it's not as gross as she (and possibly you) thinks. It's a common misconception that she'll just start bleeding all over your dick in the middle of sex. It's as simple as her going to the bathroom right before you have sex and washing up. Most likely, you won't see any blood the entire time, and even if you do it'll be very very very little. For someone who has a weak stomach, I will tell you that I have no problem with this at all.
Author:  Lebenskunstler [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 3:32 pm ]
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I'm going to give some advice on your inability to orgasm. I have had simmilar problems in the past. I can last very long as well and with some girls i don't come! It's psychological since you do come when you masturbate.

1. Youre a giver
Thats a good thing because you take your time to warm her up and make her comfortable. However there is a flipside. When you worry about what she feels too much and try to get in her head too much you forget to enjoy yourself.

What i would do if i were you is have the foreplay like you want. Everything is fine!! But once you have your dick in her it's your turn. She is your toy! When i was younger i was afraid to put all my fantasys in practive on my girl because i though she would start to think bad of me. Sex has changed sooo much since i got older. I now put it in every hole i like and fuck in all the positions i like. And what do you think? She likes it more than ever. A girl likes you to take the lead and treat her as a toy. Many girls dream about getting raped, seriously.
a. Don't say to yourself, i have to come now. BE IN THE MOMENT! Relax
b. Figure out from what angles she looks hottest and fuck her in that position
c. Don't hide your fantasy's if you like to put it in her nostril do it bro!
Just relax, be in the moment and don't be afraid please yourself!

2. She's unexperienced
you tell me she thinks its disgusting and stuff. Auch that makes it hard for you to enjoy her. When a girl is unexperienced i usually don't come since they don't invest much. They become a pupet to me.

To get her to invest more and like sex more.
a. Dirty talk.
Specially during the sex ask her if she likes girls for example. If she complies say things like. Would you like to get your pussy eaten by a girl. So at first this might be awkward to you since it might be new. But imagine you are just her doctor that has to ask in order to cure her.

b. Tell her what to do
Put on your horny voice and just deman her to tickle your balls. Or change position or anything.Again this might be new to you and feel awkward but it's just a matter of acting cool while doing it and not make it in a joke or appologize. It's normal

c. After sex talk
Sex is like a dance, it enquires two people. When you're laying in bed after sex ask her what she liked and what the two of you could change. Be cool and open to her. Once she notices you listen to her and want to please her she'll want to please you more as well!

Ciao!!
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