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Author:  mapleleaf [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 7:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Stop feelings of my heartbeats
Whenever I am talking to a girl I like I am more inclined to hold back and run out of things to say, and my heart starts to beat faster, compared to when I am talking to girls who I have no interest in (but looks good). How to stop this feeling? Also, how to avoid running things out of saying.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 7:47 pm ]
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just the anxiety. Keep doing what you're doing, I remember my first approaches...
Author:  mapleleaf [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 8:00 pm ]
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just the anxiety. Keep doing what you're doing, I remember my first approaches...
No, its not AA, I don't have any problems talking to other good looking girls, just the ones I am attracted to.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 8:06 pm ]
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just the anxiety. Keep doing what you're doing, I remember my first approaches...
No, its not AA, I don't have any problems talking to other good looking girls, just the ones I am attracted to.


Oh, ha. I see, well just treat them like the other girls you were talking to. They aren't any different, you just have them has more genuine interest as the rest. Don't let this get to your head, it will do more harm than good.
Author:  Sluggler [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 8:11 pm ]
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It is anxiety, and mainly confidence. You need to be confident in your conversational skills. Its not as hard as you think. When talking looks for key words.

Such as if you ask her about her passion...

Her: I really love to dance!

You: Cool! It must be really cool to have the ability to express yourself in a artistic way. Does dancing really bring out the creative/ expressive side in you?

Her: blah blah blah(usually if you are talking about a passion it will involve emotions because it involves something she loves to do, so she will definitely give you interest when discussing deep things that involve emotions)

So what i did was i took the word she used "Dance" and turned it into a whole different conversation. This what you need to do. just make connections. Try to avoid making a connection with your life at this point. Keep it all about her. Try to avoid talking about yourself unless necessary.

Just relax and dont think about her good looks. Talk to her like your talking to a friend. Also dont put to much pressure on one situation with a femal. It shouldnt matter that much. In a few hours you will probably be meeting another female. So it doesnt really matter. Just be confident and alpha.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 11:40 pm ]
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Try to avoid making a connection with your life at this point. Keep it all about her. Try to avoid talking about yourself unless necessary.
That's great advice for sarging. Remember this well.

If you reveal too much about yourself, you're deducting attraction points from yourself.

As for the heartbeats, try sarging 10 girls that you really like. You'll get used to it in due time and the heart thumping will all naturally go away. Girls will feel the same way when someone they like talks to them. They'll run out of things to say. They'll feel nervous. They'll mess up. The only way that you can make them feel comfortable with you is through I_Likem_All's advice that I've highlighted above. :twisted:
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