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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 12:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | How should I move on??? |
Hi guys. I will get straight to the point. This girl from my social circle and I knew each other for about two years now, only really started talking to her last year, properly. After I joined PUA I realized she was giving me signals, so we talked over Facebook for a few months, and I could tell she liked me. I made a move on her last week, and we ended up making out. Then, two days later, we end up making out again, and now tonight again. We only do though once we are away from our friends, we take the same night bus. Until now I have acted like its a very casual thing, when we are with friends we do not do anything. No One knows. I want to take this further though as I do like her quite a bit. But I'm not too sure what to do next. Should I somehow try to get her to come to my place? Take her on a date? It all seems very casual until now. Our make out sessions have diminished a little too, so I dunno if I am showing too much interest or too little... Any help would be greatly appreciated. I really do like her, but I know too much interest can scare her off and seem unattractive - neediness is bad, so I have been acting very unneedy for now. |
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| Author: | Sluggler [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 1:47 am ] |
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You are doing well maintaining things. Skip the date and invite her over. If you are making out with her their is no need for a date. The point of the date is for each of you to get to know each other better and become comfortable together right?..Well this is already done. Apparently she likes you too. Just keep things moving forward. Dont stay stuck. Good luck! |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 9:48 am ] |
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And m guessing I ask her over for a casual reason right? Like I want to show her something and she should come over? Also, do I continue to tease her as much at this tage? I used to tease her quite a bit, but I've turned it down. Is this good or bad? |
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| Author: | Sluggler [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 10:44 am ] |
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Yes your are right. You have to have a legit reason why you are inviting her over. If not her society trained mined will tell her you plan on having sex together and that's its to early for that and it will make her feel like a slut. So to avoid this have a legit reason for inviting her over. Maybe she's told you she's liked something or interested in something...you could invite her over to show her something she is interested in or anything. Just try to make sure its legit. Don't make your intentions to obvious. Girls LOVE to be teased. Especially in the beginning. As you guys further your relationship you can still tease but things will become more deep after you have sex with her. But still by all means still tease her..maybe not as much but its not a bad thing. |
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| Author: | Sluggler [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 10:45 am ] |
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Yes your are right. You have to have a legit reason why you are inviting her over. If not her society trained mined will tell her you plan on having sex together and that's its to early for that and it will make her feel like a slut. So to avoid this have a legit reason for inviting her over. Maybe she's told you she's liked something or interested in something...you could invite her over to show her something she is interested in or anything. Just try to make sure its legit. Don't make your intentions to obvious. Girls LOVE to be teased. Especially in the beginning. As you guys further your relationship you can still tease but things will become more deep after you have sex with her. But still by all means still tease her..maybe not as much but its not a bad thing. |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 9:45 pm ] |
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Alright so I saw her again today. We went to the cinema with a few friends. After that we took the same train back. We did not end up kissing or anything, just a hug goodbye. Is this a bad sign? I don't really know where I stand with her right now. I think she may be losing interest. She is still very nice to me, just I always have to make a move on her every time we see each other for the kiss. |
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