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| Author: | Ozai [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 11:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Neg over facebook, did i dig my own grave? |
I was talking to this awesome h9 girl on facebook, and i negged her. I said: You remind me of my weird ex. We had a nice conversation, but i sort of screwed it up ;p. Any rules for negging over facebook etc? Thx, Maarten |
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| Author: | CaptainJackHarkness [ Sun Apr 15, 2012 12:03 am ] |
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Lol...yea I never like negging girls based on past relationship references. Like you remind me of my 3rd girlfriend...what a psycho! Haha. I usually try to keep it to the girl. Most people go off of an action she does...or what she wears...and kind of insult it. Negging is any banter which just kind of makes fun of her. So ...keep that in mind. |
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| Author: | charblad [ Sun Apr 15, 2012 12:05 am ] |
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Try not negging girls at all; you have a 100% chance of not screwing up if you never neg, and it's not a required 'step' when gaming a woman. If you do feel the need to neg look up a guide on it first, it's actually really a hard thing to do |
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| Author: | Pbblade [ Sun Apr 15, 2012 12:05 am ] |
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Negging over facebook is like shooting with a shotgun through your feet. The most important part of a neg is the way you express it, Your world is not their world and they will think of it differently then You do, that's mostly why facebook is generally a bad way to game. Dont let it discourage you though, I actually game better on facebook then real life cause people are more opened up. I have alot of succes in real life aswell, so I guess being good at both pays off 
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| Author: | CaptainJackHarkness [ Sun Apr 15, 2012 12:35 am ] |
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I also want to note that negging on facebook carries a very monotone tonality. If you said that even with a ":P" or =P Then ...either way..the girl may still get pissed off cause all her friends can see it. |
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| Author: | Teamwerx [ Sun Apr 15, 2012 2:13 am ] |
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I'd be shocked if you said she reminded you of your super hot, extremely intelligent, totally wicked ex, much less your weird one. I think negging via anything other than in person or the phone is asking for it, but it's also a risk that brings reward when done properly in a text/message setting. |
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| Author: | Ozai [ Sun Apr 15, 2012 9:15 am ] |
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thx for the help guys, i got the neg from a sticky neg topic on this site. what are nice things to say through facebook (it was chat, not on her profile) |
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| Author: | CaptainJackHarkness [ Sun Apr 15, 2012 10:03 am ] |
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You need to stop playing Facebook game and get out there and get physical with her. |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Sun Apr 15, 2012 11:00 pm ] |
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Is not the neg that screwed you over, is the situation you used it in. If is 1 on 1 conversation, you don't neg at all. She is already into you. You got her attention. Is ok to tease, but the tease can't be random. It has to flow with the conversation. If you open a set, if all the girls are responding, no need to neg. If you open a set, all girl respond, but your target does not, neg the target and stack forward without waiting for reaction from her. Neg is a good tool. Personally, I never do it. Don't get it confuse between teasing girls. |
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| Author: | AdamThomas [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 8:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Neg over facebook, did i dig my own grave? |
Quote: Any rules for negging over facebook etc?
Yeah, don't do it. It doesn't build attraction, just pisses people off.
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 8:50 pm ] |
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There's a holy trinity of taboo subjects when gaming... 1) Religion 2) Politics 3) Exes. Live it, learn it, love it. |
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| Author: | GeorgePH [ Tue Apr 17, 2012 6:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Neg over facebook, did i dig my own grave? |
Quote: I was talking to this awesome h9 girl on facebook, and i negged her. I said: You remind me of my weird ex. We had a nice conversation, but i sort of screwed it up ;p. Any rules for negging over facebook etc?
That's not a "neg"; that's basically an insult. There's supposed to be a compliment to the neg. So if you said, "you remind me of this really hot ex I had.. she was crazy though!", that might be a neg. Thx, Maarten Also, what this guy said: Quote: You need to stop playing Facebook game and get out there and get physical with her.
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