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| Author: | MN87 [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 3:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Back to square 1 or second chance? How to proceed from here? |
Hi guys, new here, so I hope this post is in the right spot. I'll try to condense this story. BACKGROUND: I've been putting in work on this one girl for a while now. 6 months. It finally started to pay dividends a few weeks back; our attitude towards each other has always been flirty, but she picked up the sexuality of her flirtations towards me and also started becoming a bit clingy (I think she may have been ovulating). So about 2 weeks ago, I get this girl in the back of my car after class; we go to our back seat, and to make a long story short, I couldn't get hard. Nerves I guess. We ended up making out, I sucked on her titty, and she was feeling me up but it could never escalate. I made the best of the situation and kept it lighthearted and made jokes about my situation, and she seemed cool/understanding. She seemed normal/touchy-feely the day after, we still maintain contact, etc. I know that this girl likes me/has liked me this whole time, so I know I have my foot in the door, but she's very busy (premed and MCAT soon) so it has been difficult progressing things. She legit has not fucked anyone since the Summer, and I'm not really afraid of competition either. NOW: My personality in general is somewhat cocky and crude… a lot of my jokes are very sexual and I’m very ‘touchy’ and suggestive. The problem here is trying to re-escalate to those levels. I talked a lot of game before, and part of me thinks I've lost the right to do that due to my aforementioned failure. That being said, it's been two weeks since this happened, and we're about to get off from spring break in which I didn't really speak to her much... which I feel is a nice little grace period. I feel like this period was the 'reset' I needed, so that I can charge back in and try talking shit once again. Problem won't happen again, I got viagra just in case. So yeah... my question basically is, what kind of attitude would you show her when trying to re-escalate things? I don't want to break stride, so I plan on continuing the shit talking, except maybe lace my comments a bit more with 'negs' (I think that's what you guys call them.. basically friendly jabs)... and maybe poke some more fun at the situation, although I don't want to draw negativity to it either... thoughts? |
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 3:56 am ] |
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Slow down soldier... You've got a 6-month relationship (one-itis, basically until you balked) with this chick. You know her buttons, or you should. Know what gets her riled up. What motivates her? What makes her smile - and move accordingly. Be who you are - be the same guy who got her in the back of that car to begin with. And, relax! Forget the Viagra - I'd go in without it, and if I had the shot with her again - and it happened again - I'd see a doctor. |
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