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Author:  PUARyan [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 3:15 am ]
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I am completely new to the game, so I apologize for my lack of knowledge.

I am texting a girl who I believe is a complete 10. Normally, I have no problem texting girls because I am a pretty smooth guy. I am sure I make errors here and there but so far I say what should be said depending on the situation and I throw in a few compliments here and there to show some attraction.

I have no idea whether this girl is shy or doesn't want to talk to me...
If I do stop talking to her, she will say something like ... or Sorryy to restart the conversation which is an IOI according to what I read, but for some reason she always sends one worded texts to me which is very annoying... I am almost out of questions to ask her and I don't know how to execute this.

It's hard to use my charm if I don't know she likes me. I even straight up asked her to tell me if she didn't want to talk, but she said she did soooo.
Please, whoever reads this, HELP
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 4:00 am ]
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Stop texting without purpose.

If you want to F-close this chick, text to re-establish the comm's. Be random/funny. Throw in time differentials when responding to her. If she's still that cryptic - back off.

If you do a takeaway and she doesn't respond - it's not a takeaway, it's her lack of interest.

If it starts back - escelate to a phone call or a date.

I RARELY text a chick I'm not going to fuck. It's pointless to me otherwise.
Author:  PUARyan [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 4:06 am ]
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Thank you for the suggestion :) Does anyone else agree with this?
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 12:09 pm ]
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Does anyone else agree with this?
That's one SOLID advice from RetiredRodeo. What more could you ask for, eh? :twisted:
Author:  Costa-T [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 12:59 pm ]
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All i can think of is that you conversation with her over text isn't exciting or any different from the other texts she receives from the other dudes. The first time she gets asked a question she will be excited and will answer in a excited way but as the same question comes over and over again she just gets bored. For example, when you get asked how you are for the first time in the morning you'll be like 'yeah im great thanks, yourself' but as you get asked that question over and over again that morning you'll notice that your answer will be like 'im okay'.. Same thing with texts. You have to stand out and be more interesting, if a girl didn't wana talk to you she wouldn't bother replying to you because she doesn't have to. And what's with that stupid question 'do you not wana talk?' :S that's a poor AFC mistake, you need to be like so what if she doesn't wana talk but because you asked her that question she knows that you care if she talks or not!

If you wana get a shot with this girl then you need to start being different in every text you send her, play it kool, take time to text her back. Be funny and cocky but not too much because that will put them off. Be the last person she speaks to before she goes to bed. That way you will have a real chance
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 1:04 pm ]
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Be the last person she speaks to before she goes to bed. That way you will have a real chance
I disagree with this premise... This may be age-appropriate depending on the woman. For me - I target low/mid 30's and up.

I don't ever worry about being the last person they talk to at night. That sends the wrong message. I don't want them thinking I'm going to be that predictable, that sappy, that sweet... It's not my game.

I don't worry about what other guys are talking to her - I don't give a shit because I know I'll rise above them. The more there are, and you're still walking tall = HUGE DHV for yourself.

That's the beauty of gaming... It's different for everyone - but the concepts are such that it can work for everyone as well.
Author:  Costa-T [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 1:12 pm ]
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Be the last person she speaks to before she goes to bed. That way you will have a real chance
I disagree with this premise... This may be age-appropriate depending on the woman. For me - I target low/mid 30's and up.

I don't ever worry about being the last person they talk to at night. That sends the wrong message. I don't want them thinking I'm going to be that predictable, that sappy, that sweet... It's not my game.

I don't worry about what other guys are talking to her - I don't give a shit because I know I'll rise above them. The more there are, and you're still walking tall = HUGE DHV for yourself.

That's the beauty of gaming... It's different for everyone - but the concepts are such that it can work for everyone as well.

I totally agree but i didn't mean he should be all sweet and wish her happy dreams and that, just save texting till the end of the night. Girls aged 18-26 fall easily for that, that's from my experience anyway.
You obviously don't worry about other guys talking to her because you will make yourself stand out by being more interesting and that's what i told him in my previous post. He's got to be different and more interesting for him to stand out and even get a changce with her. No man should care about the other guys who talk to the same girl as long as he knows what he's doing!
Author:  asesino [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 3:29 pm ]
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Talk to enough girls they'll tell you "I remember that time he said....and it really caught my attention/cracked me up/etc.."

If you sound like every other joe, like anyone else she'll lose interest. Make some funny ass statement or remark, don't even ask any questions, she'll be enticed to follow if you spark her curiosity enough.
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