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Author:  Lebenskunstler [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:45 pm ]
Post subject:  HELP!!!!, GIRLS STARTED TO CONTACT EACHOTHER
My fucking god!! this is about the two hottest girls i know!

I made my exgf into an open raltionship (after 7 years of LTR and a break) She's pretty much fine with me fucking around. She's a HB9,5 or so and when i tell her she is most important to me, once a week she lets me mess around. (some more background info if you want here-vp629519.html#629519 )

But now i met this girl HB9,8 (since 10's don't exist ok). I now spent convincing her she's most important to me every day since she found out about her. I havn't kissed or fucked HB9,8 but this was about to happen soon.

Yesterday my ORL girl gave me an ultimatum where i had to choose between her or HB9,8. I told her after 2 hours of dodging the question i'll choose for her. So that night i called HB9,8 and we arranged a meeting. (i'm such an assholl i know but that's not what this topic is about)

I put the meeting in my digital agenda saying; "misses ###" five minutes later i receive the first angry messages from my ORLgirl. I ignore the messages (i'm sarging) and later that night she called me.

So my ORL girl tells me she couldn't controll herself anymore after she saw i was going to meet up with her. She broke into my gmail extracted my agenda and stole her phonenumber.

She tells me she's sorry (genuinly) and i start to laughh hard. I was in some euphoric state. I tell her it's ok i don't mind.(sothat she'll be more specific and give me more info) She tells me she texted her that HB9,8 should watch out for me because i fuck all girls blablabla.

So HB9,5 and HB9,8 have been exchanging books of information about me. My LTRgirl tells me she stopped texting her at some point because HB9,8 became a little feminist and wanted to team up with her or something. (my girl hates feminists)

I have the meeting planned with her next tuesday. What to expect/what to do
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:24 pm ]
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Dude, if you can deliver in bed - it's all good. The more your GF talks with the other... the more she inadvertently DHVs you.

If she's already agreed to an open relationship - call her on it. Sarging isn't 'just' trying to fuck chicks - it's to continuously fuck chicks!

If you're in a relationship, you have to make boundaries. If so - hold her to them. BUT - hold yourself to them as well, you're in a GOOD place, don't lie. You don't need to!

You shouldn't have agreed to cut off the HB9.8 - that violated the agreement you two made... As for now, tell her you were wrong about lying (because you were.) ... BUT - then tell her it's not remotely fair to change the rules of things midstream. Ask what it is about the other chick that she's so jealous about when she never has been before? If you keep honest - you can really be the victim here.... then it's a win/win. If she's a cool chick - offer a threesome and smile! You never know!




I dunno.... HB9.5 and HB9.8? Either you're biased and increasing the rating just a tad... or you're the smoothest fucker alive - but if you were, you'd not be in this situation to begin with... :wink:

Oh, and my last piece of advice: Create a new email address that NOBODY knows about but you - and use that for all clandestine pussy grabs... protect your phone. Information is the power!
Author:  pumpington [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:30 pm ]
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do not post questions about girls in the lounge, that is not what it is for, read the rules before posting, also some chick breaking into your g-mail isn't cool, I donno what your boundaries are like, but you should set some if that sort of thing isn't ok with you

some chick breaking into your email, getting a phone number of someone else then talking shit about you to them is pretty fucking bat shit insane staler mode, if you ask me, that would earn her a one way ticket to, that was sort of a stalker style thing to do, don't ever do that again land, followed by a long icy freeze

but if it doesn't bother you and you don't care that some girl is willing to mess with your personal life via using your email and contacting people you know because she is crazy, then just let it continue and ignore the above
Author:  Lebenskunstler [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:42 pm ]
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Ok last time i'll post about a girl here! :) srry
Quote:
You shouldn't have agreed to cut off the HB9.8 - that violated the agreement you two made... As for now, tell her you were wrong about lying (because you were.) ... BUT - then tell her it's not remotely fair to change the rules of things midstream. Ask what it is about the other chick that she's so jealous about when she never has been before? If you keep honest - you can really be the victim here.... then it's a win/win. If she's a cool chick - offer a threesome and smile! You never know!
So my worries are not about my open relationship girl. I have her in check mate. She can never leave me since she can't believe a guy can act this way to a hot girl like her. But ofcourse i shouldn't have lied to her. It's been years since i had to do that.

I am going to offer a threesome! thanx to remind me. Maybe i already did? dunno i'm so open to my ORL girl.

My question is about HB9,8. You could be right that this is nothing but DHV.
But the thing is she started to talk to my ORLgirl about her experience with guys like me and how bad that is etc. Is this her just comforting my ORLgirl and getting wet at the same time. Or should i prepare for heavy shit when i meet HB9.8.

Thing is that my ORLgirl told HB9.8 she is in an open relationship with me so that basically i'm allowed to do this.

About the hotness
again these are the two hottest girls i know. So to me they are in the 9-10 ratio. Funny thing is they are verry alike. Height/blonde/curves/cute faces/fashion

About her breaking into my shit
I had 7 years of LTR with her and everytime i lied to her she would find out about it. I'm pretty much used to it. I know it's bad but fact is that i lied to her. I'm so fucking honest and open to her that i don't really care honestly
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:54 pm ]
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Love Star... just post in the right area, that's all he's saying - he's not being a dick about it bud.


As for your situation - I don't know what to tell you - you developed a culture where it's OK for her to invade your own privacy based on your own pattern of lies. Doesn't sound really healthy for a relationship - but I don't KNOW your situaiton other than the words you're writing - and pelase understand there is NO point in me trying to flame you or pump your ego. I'm just calling it like I see it based on your words.

You might lose HB9.8 to keep your GF. But - big deal. Sounds like you're a quality dude that can get other HB9.8's, so why is this one so important?

I establish the ground rules early on - the deal breakers have to be just that. The rest of it - is the minor shit I tolerate until I get bored.... but the big stuff (privacy, limits, drama, lies, random bullshit to just piss me off) I don't play with. She needs to respect your boundaries and you need to do the same.

Best to you bud.
Author:  Lebenskunstler [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 6:06 pm ]
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Quote:
Love Star... just post in the right area, that's all he's saying - he's not being a dick about it bud.


As for your situation - I don't know what to tell you - you developed a culture where it's OK for her to invade your own privacy based on your own pattern of lies. Doesn't sound really healthy for a relationship - but I don't KNOW your situaiton other than the words you're writing - and pelase understand there is NO point in me trying to flame you or pump your ego. I'm just calling it like I see it based on your words.

You might lose HB9.8 to keep your GF. But - big deal. Sounds like you're a quality dude that can get other HB9.8's, so why is this one so important?

I establish the ground rules early on - the deal breakers have to be just that. The rest of it - is the minor shit I tolerate until I get bored.... but the big stuff (privacy, limits, drama, lies, random bullshit to just piss me off) I don't play with. She needs to respect your boundaries and you need to do the same.

Best to you bud.
Yeh i might lose miss 9,8 but shes somewhat the hottest girl i met in a long while. I'd like her as a fb. But hey i have nothing but oneitis on her so im fine eighterway!

The reason i'm doing so good with this hot chick is because i met her when she was 14 and i was 18 working in a bar. At that time i was in a relationship with miss9,5 and they saw eachother once being verry impressed about one another.

So its now 5+ years later and i exidentally meet 9,8 because i moved to the other side of the country where i knew she lived. So these two girls never spoke to eachother and only saw eachother once but my gf told me she remembered her like yesterday.

Fact; They are verry impressed about eachother!

I dunno what to expect from 9.8 when i meet her. If i meet her. Will she look at me as dangerous or just like me more......
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