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| Author: | Justeffy [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Afraid of ditching a HB. |
When I meet a HB at the club, and it seems to work out properly, and I say like "you know what - I gotta go", it feels like I've dissed her, and she won't ever bother about me later on. It just feels so wrong, but I guess it's proper gaming, right? I've had positive outcomes from it a couple times, but I still can't get over the feeling that it feels wrong, haha. I'm kinda new to the whole PUA thingy, so be gently with me  I'm here to learn, after all. |
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:36 pm ] |
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If those are the exact words you're using - you're defeating yourself before you begin. By starting with "You know what..." You come across as impetulent and won't be taken seriously. Throw the FALSE time constraint. Tell her you have to leave so she doesn't immediately think you're trying to pick her up - unless you're doing a cold-approach/caveman. But - it's a FALSE constraint. I use that to start the conversation - then an opener to usually put them in a teaching mindset, and take my queues from her IOIs. If you do leave the set - do so politely at least. Good luck, man! |
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| Author: | Justeffy [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:10 pm ] |
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thx, I'll get that down. |
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