Hi guys, really need some advice.
Over Christmas I started sleeping with my housemate - she has a guy that lives in Bulgaria though.
We started to get close, but she kept trying to shut it down because she felt so bad.
I kept it causual, kept seeing other girls. This she didn't like, and it made her come back to me.
She decided to shut it down again, so I started seeing my other housemates best friend - a real hottie.
Kept both going for a while but then my housemate booked tickets to go see her bloke.
She went away and I think 're-found' the relationship.
Since she's got back she has shut it down, and nothing has happened.
It ended with the other housemates friend who couldnt do the triangle thing.
I have started seeing a new girl and started bringing her over - playing it cool (but maybe hoping for a little reaction).
I think my housemate still has a thing, she is distant in some ways - like we're both uncertain of getting too close (there seems to be a thin wall of ice between us), but in some ways we are like we were.
I'm trying to play it cool - to not have a hang up on it, and it's working (when sober) - we still joke around and have fun.
When we've both been out though and drunk it's a bit tense with us, and weird.
Not sure how to play this, should I just shut it down for good?
I'm pretty sure the LD BF won't work out, but I'm not going to wait around.
I do like her though, and regardless she's still my main target..
Advice?
