Hey guys,

I was in the game a while ago, happy with where I was, but then I stopped flirting around to be with one amazing woman. Things aren't working out with her right now, but I do plan to be with her in the future. I've decided the best way to get her is to go away, get with as many women as I can, and then come back for her later.

After devising this plan of action, I realized that I've been hesitating on approaches and not taking every opportunity. I thought maybe it's because getting with these other girls isn't what I truly want. I love this other woman. Another possibility is that it's simply approach anxiety. I have some doubts about this though, because I would start conversations with so many random uni girls back when I was with the one I wanted. I didn't have any intentions with them though.

So could it be approach anxiety? Can approach anxiety set in after previosly overcoming it? Or is it merely the fact that I don't want it bad enough? Which ever one it is, how can I fix it? I know that getting back in the game will be good for me.

Thanks.