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Author:  Porject100 [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 6:41 pm ]
Post subject:  where to use the techniuqes
Where to use the techniques?

Hey guys, I'm totally new here, I'm 31 and I have a weak game, still no where into calling myself a PUA, I have to add that theres bunch of abbreviations that I could not understand and I wont use here since I don't know most of them :D

I don't care about fear of women, I can walk up to any girl and say anything I want, that is not a limitation to me, my strongest limitation is I don't want to look like a fool and say something that makes her laugh at me like if I was an idiot! The second limitation is that I cant come up with responses fast enough like 98% of the time after the inter actions I'll be still thinking about it and just wish I said what came onto my mind after 10 minutes or so!

So the story happened to me last night and I wish I had more knowledge that made me hook that girl, I walked in an electronics store, and the girl on the door was super hot and I think shes few years younger than me, I went to her and asked her where to find stuff, she was smiling to me in a very good genuine way, that made me wanna make out with her right there on the spot, I have read little posts from here and other web sites about hooking up and PUA games and such, but the posters 99% of the times refer to either a club or a bar, I wonder if I'm in a store how can I apply these techs ?? like if I want to touch her … go physical or even get so close to the girl ? Or should I aim for a phone number instead ? And if so how will I get it in a matter of few minutes?

One thing I noticed when I was on the check out that the girl was not smiling as much to other customers as much as she did to me ? Does that indicated she likes me and I had a chance with her ???

thanks so much for all your help guys ,
Author:  In$tinct [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 10:18 pm ]
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You ask too many and too open questions to answer in one thread. First of all chances are that girl liked you. Second, your mindset is completely wrong. I'll explain:

You don't do pick-up as you imagine it. You don't apply tactics. You sell yourself. You offer value, and the girl will want that. That's to sum it up. Value can be many things. Money, good looks, being very social and fun, having a tight game...etc. For your own happiness I recommend you try selling your inner values rather than money... You don't want a gold digger whore I guess.

Third thing is your fear of being awkward. You have to stop worrying about what she thinks about you and how she could laugh at you. Remember she's just a complete stranger, chances are you'll never ever see her again.

Fourth thing about that can't come up with answers things. Your try-hard solution to a non-existing problem causes a very existing one. You don't have to...or rather you shouldn't think about your answers. It puts a lot of unnecessary stress on you. Just try reacting normally, without thinking much. This applies to pretty much everything from the very basics to the advanced stuff.

Let me explain again... If someone introduces herself/himself to you, you really don't think about "what to do now?" You just go ahead and introduce yourself too. When you're around people much, interacting with many, including hot women of course, you will react more naturally to basically everything. With practice, lots of time and patience, even things like kissing her, or taking her home will be just as natural to you, as a simple introduction.

But before that happens, you should be aware of what you are doing. Always try reflecting on yourself. What you did wrong and right. This is only efficient if you go for the close. No matter what situation you are in, or where. If you like the girl, go for the close. Be it number, kiss, or f, but close. If it succeeds, you probably did most things right, if it doesn't then you have to figure...was it you who fucked up, or just the girl not meant for you.

Good Luck!
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