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| Author: | Ability [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 1:24 am ] |
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So I had a friend who shit on me daily and really rattled my self confidence with women. It made approaching nearly impossible and I quit working for him for that reason. So now I'm living with my mom, broke, and without a car. Not looking for pity though, I just wanted to ask a question. He constantly preached about how no girl would be interested in me because all I like to do is watch movies, tv, and sports. He preached that I needed to start following politics, yoga, become a good bowler, even recommended taking up chess. Anyways my question is simply how right is he? Am I some kind of social outcast because I don't care to follow bullshit politics or want to learn yoga for the sake up picking up girls? |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 1:36 am ] |
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Your friend is fucking retarded. Also, stop calling him a friend because he's a douche bag and you should stay clear of him. In fact, go to his house right now, kick him in the balls, then steal all the beer out of his fridge. No, you aren't boring for those reasons. Your hobbies and interests have nothing to do with how boring you are. If you can carry on a good conversation and are fun to be around, that's all what matters. Most women do not give a shit about politics, and yoga, bowling, or chess are pretty much the last things on the list of attractive activities anyway. Once again, I reiterate that your friend is a complete asswipe. |
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| Author: | Ability [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 1:46 am ] |
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Thanks for the reply. Honestly I could complain for hours about all the negative things he said but that's too petty and boring for you guys. It was difficult to hear from him because I thought we were good friends and I valued his advice because he has slept with over 100 women and I'm still a virgin, but eventually I realized his constant negativity wasn't help. I do believe his heart was in the right place, but in all honesty I don't know if I'll ever speak to him again. Having a friend repeatedly tell you you're a loser who needs to change everything about yourself and make boatloads of money or no woman will ever like you isn't the type of friend I need. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 1:58 am ] |
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Quote: Thanks for the reply. Honestly I could complain for hours about all the negative things he said but that's too petty and boring for you guys. It was difficult to hear from him because I thought we were good friends and I valued his advice because he has slept with over 100 women and I'm still a virgin, but eventually I realized his constant negativity wasn't help. I do believe his heart was in the right place, but in all honesty I don't know if I'll ever speak to him again. Having a friend repeatedly tell you you're a loser who needs to change everything about yourself and make boatloads of money or no woman will ever like you isn't the type of friend I need.
He probably cares about you, but he is coming from an awful angle. He is insecure if he was determined to do all that to put you down. I personally do yoga and I am pretty sure those that practiced are not advised to say such shit. Avoid this fuck, you just work on never letting someone rattle your self confidence ever again. |
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| Author: | Datguy [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 2:49 am ] |
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No person who damages your self-steem deserves to be called a friend. |
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| Author: | Soncheese [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 3:16 am ] |
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where the fuck does he live im guna go and f-close his mum right now |
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