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Author:  afcme123 [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 5:06 pm ]
Post subject:  My experiment to get over AA...
I have a problem with AA bad!!! So here is what I'm going todo tonight..

Its similar to the dildo strapped to the head technique but slightly less extreme..

I'm going to go out dressed like a super geek.. Not like a over the top in believable geek.. But a geek..

I will approach and act like I have no clue what I'm doing..i will act neardy and shy.. Iwill try to get numbers, but I know I will get shut down..

I will do things like get a number with a pencil and paper instead of using my phone.. I will tell everyone I have a MySpace and not a Facebook and stuff like that..


I think this could help my AA.. What do u guys think?
Author:  mapleleaf [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 5:23 pm ]
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did the doctors somehow screw you up during your moms labor? what in world are you thinking? you want to overcome AA, and how does dressing up as a geek is going to help you overcome it? if you are trolling here, then just go away, we are here trying to learn PUA materials.

If you want to overcome AA, watch some videos on youtube, read books confidence and improve confidence. You don't dress up like a geek or nerd and try to get girls number.
Author:  afcme123 [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 5:42 pm ]
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I figured my fear of rejection is what's fueling my AA. And if I go into a situation where rejection is inevitable then maybe it will start to go away. The dressing up is a way of dis connecting myself from the rejection.. It softens the blow if you know they didn't reject you, but someone u we're pretending to be..

It's an experiment, I think your reply was a little harsh.. Not everyone is a pua right away, and everyone learns through different methods. I thought this might be a good way to help me get over a problem I have. I simply asked for an opinion... Not a bashing.
Author:  Little Panda [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 5:46 pm ]
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I figured my fear of rejection is what's fueling my AA. And if I go into a situation where rejection is inevitable then maybe it will start to go away.
How is this any different from going out as yourself and doing the exact same thing? Do you feel it's going to be easier on you if they reject the 'fake' you rather than the real you?

You're only prolonging the inevitable for absolutely no reason.

Go out there, meet women and have a genuine conversation with them - person to person. No pressure for now, don't feel as if you have to close anything. Just talk.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 5:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My experiment to get over AA...
Quote:
I have a problem with AA bad!!! So here is what I'm going todo tonight..

Its similar to the dildo strapped to the head technique but slightly less extreme..

I'm going to go out dressed like a super geek.. Not like a over the top in believable geek.. But a geek..

I will approach and act like I have no clue what I'm doing..i will act neardy and shy.. Iwill try to get numbers, but I know I will get shut down..

I will do things like get a number with a pencil and paper instead of using my phone.. I will tell everyone I have a MySpace and not a Facebook and stuff like that..


I think this could help my AA.. What do u guys think?


Take off the mask and do it by going as yourself. Stop beating around the bush
Author:  DanHMan [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 5:53 pm ]
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Don't do that. Just spend a little while making eye contact and conversation with random people. Don't even approach a girl, as it will ruin your confedence, and that's not something you need at this point.
Author:  bartm [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 6:28 pm ]
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thats a terrible idea

I have done this before, the rejections will crush you man.

Just wear something nice, smell nice (Cool Water is a cool cologne), etc. and start approaching.
I find that when I am well dressed approaching is much easier.
Author:  asesino [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 6:42 pm ]
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just go out as yourself, should be lame enough
Author:  Chai [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 9:26 am ]
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Ummm...Hypnotica didn't strap that dildo to his head to
get over his AA, he did that get over his fear of what people
thought of him :? Funnily enough the experiment did work
regardless of the unorthodox nature. I don't recommend
doing that.
Quote:
You're only prolonging the inevitable for absolutely no reason.

Go out there, meet women and have a genuine conversation with them - person to person. No pressure for now, don't feel as if you have to close anything. Just talk.
Go with that route instead, hit the nail on the head right there...
Author:  KimPa [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 9:41 am ]
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Hey man, you can do whatever.. Anything you will do would def be better than not doing anything at all! So what if he wants to dress up as a geek and try and pick girls?
Watching videos and reading books are helpful but not as close as actually going out and experimenting! If you do it, give me some feedback.. I would love to know what happened!
Author:  Datguy [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 9:55 am ]
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Cut off the masochistic fantasies, just go out and have normal regular conversations with other human beings. As simple as that.
Author:  Chai [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 9:57 am ]
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Quote:
Hey man, you can do whatever.. Anything you will do would def be better than not doing anything at all! So what if he wants to dress up as a geek and try and pick girls?
KimPa it is good to experiment but if you get that overwhelming
response from others saying that the idea is bound to flop, it
probably in your best interest to take an alternative route.
There are ways about doing things the right way and
the wrong way. If he does this and fails that means
that his anxiety will just increase and do more
harm then good.

Would it not make more sense to just do
a direct approach, stay in set for 10 seconds
(without having the intention of transitioning or number closing)
and eject? I think that is more valuable and effective than dressing up
as a geek and hoping for the best, especially at this stage where the AA
is rife. There is no guarantee it will work and trust me, I've seen alot
of dumb stuff on this forum on how to go about opening / approaching.
Yes, you're excited and intrigued and open for experimentation, but
wait until you can overcome yourself and open others until you
try to put yourself in this awkward position.

The whole point of learning to approach women is to internally
acknowledge that once you approach a girl, they won't bite or scream
at you...if you come off as friendly and approachable they will be open
to have a chat with you.

You don't need to resort to such flamboyancy to approach
someone...it's...redundant.

In my opinion, it would be best to develop a good inner game
and boost the confidence...and then later on when you're more
open to try new things and aren't afraid to approach women, do
this 'geek' thing. Until then, stick to the "newbie missions" and make
that effort to better yourself in the effective manner :)

If you're really serious about overcoming the approach check out
my videos on my youtube channel which I specifically made for
the newbies to try out, the videos are simple, easily explained and
effective...try them out and i guarantee you'll have the success ;)
Author:  afcme123 [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 2:24 am ]
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Thanks for the replies guys.

I ended up going out and just being myself. (I figured what the hell, I would have to do it sooner or later)

The Field reports are going to be posted soon :)
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