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| Author: | n4mel355 [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 5:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Not to sure If I should ask her out? |
Hi everyone, first post. I'm a mid twenties male who has pretty much no experience with relationships or picking up woman because for the last ten years I suffered from severe social anxiety and depression and am an uber science nerd. I finally confronted those and dealt with those so in the last year have become much more confident and social and also started doing some light weights at the gym. All of a sudden I have been noticing female that are flirting with me. I'm average looking and have always been fit but in the past I have been too retarded to understand female body language and signs indicating interest. However, recently there is this girl at the University I study at that seems to be very interested in me. Tell tale signs have been excessive hair flicking when we talk, glancing at me every couple of minutes in our classes or any time were in a room (we sit on opposite side of a table less than a meter apart so I am fairly confident she is looking at me), she flat out asked me what my "relationship status" is and when was the last time I had sex, and revealed to me that the last time she had sex was in September (not to sure If I should believe that though). I don't know her that well so the question was kind of surprising, I simply answered "I'm single'" and "over a year ago", respectively. She is an attractive woman with an interesting personality and I automatically assumed that she was out of my league so have shown no interest in her till now so I don't really want to stuff this up. I am not too sure what my next move should be. I am assuming that I should ask her out for beer or coffee? I'm don't have a clue what too do as I have only ever been on a date once (didn't even now it was a date at the time). Can someone please give me advise, should I ask her out the next time I see her, or should I indicate my own interest in her first and see where it goes from there? |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 5:22 am ] |
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Casually ask her to go do something with you... grab a beer/coffee/bite to eat... whatever. |
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| Author: | glazecase [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 5:44 am ] |
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Welcome to the club! I get the impression that she's got guts. Not afraid to be straight forward. She may see you as mysterious so I would recommend you keep it that way for now. Revealing your hand to her may cause lost of interest. Like Warped Mindless said, do it casually. Nothing fancy when asking her to grab a drink. Then go from there. Clearly she's attracted to you. Now qualify her. Make sure she's your type. I'm still not 100% sure how qualifying work but a smart guy like you could figure it out with a glance. Good luck with your journey. Remember to share your result with us after you did what you got to do. Looking forward in hearing you back! -Jax |
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