Hi,
I am having this problem for a while
.The positive characteristics of me are that I am creative and a good problem solver, having a vision and being a leader.
However, I often get in troubles because, I express my oppinion about something, and people don't like that. Mainly because it is rude and I influence the situation a lot.
In the last years I learned so much about accepting people the way they are, that this already saves up about 50% of this problem. Looking forward to improve it.
Focussing on something I should not do, does not work that well, it like saying to myself: do not think about the red elephant.
I might solve this by trying:
- Not to be judgemental, and taking not my responsibilities. However, the question in that case is: when is it my responsibility? I mean, seeing friends suffer is kinda painful somethimes. In that case, I only give my oppinion when people ask me to give it?
- Learning to say my oppinion in a better way. Do you guys have any oppinion? Right now I am thinking about asking only questions.
- Accept that I have an oppinion but only say it when people ask me. However, my non-verbal communications can transmit the same. So it is kinda useless to try to not say it.
What is the best idea?
A thousand thanks.
Chunk