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| Author: | 8shark8 [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 8:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | asking for a date? |
Whats the best way? "Would you like to go on a date?" is a question format. Not good, it leaves an opening for a negative answer. "Go/come on a date with me" sounds too much like an order, little weird. Thoughts? Comments? |
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| Author: | lvl80retpaladin [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 9:02 pm ] |
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Let there be a negative answer. "I want to go on a date with you, lets go." I usually like to say something like "lets go," because I'm leading her. And if she really doesn't want to go, she'll still say no. |
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| Author: | "The Gift" [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 9:04 pm ] |
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Date's are too formal, and too cliche...will expect you to go to the cinema, get dinner all while you paying. I prefer the term 'hang out', or should "bump in to each other". |
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| Author: | 8shark8 [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 9:09 pm ] |
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hmm.. I like Gift's idea. I go to university with this girl so we already hang out. That's why I need something to let her know that I'm not just casually friends with her. |
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| Author: | "The Gift" [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 9:24 pm ] |
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Quote: hmm.. I like Gift's idea.
It all depends how you act. I could go to the park with a girl(friend) who I'm not interested in, then I could go to the same park with a girl who I am interested in. It all depends what my intentions are and how I act on/to her.I go to university with this girl so we already hang out. That's why I need something to let her know that I'm not just casually friends with her. Maybe how you word it too: "I always seem to see you in University...do you actually have a life out side of Uni? Be good to bump in to you outside of Uni one time." |
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| Author: | mapleleaf [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 10:16 pm ] |
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you NEVER ask a girl on a date. NEVER. instead invite her to join you at some place. you can say how about a drink? or invite her to an event that you want to see. it doesnt matter if she likes it or not. she will accompany you. |
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| Author: | titanman [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 10:20 pm ] |
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[quote=""The Gift""]Date's are too formal, and too cliche...will expect you to go to the cinema, get dinner all while you paying. I prefer the term 'hang out', or should "bump in to each other".[/quote] Nail. Hit. Head. |
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