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| Author: | Di_oxin [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 4:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Dancing with girls? |
Alright so lemme get a few things off my back first. I like to go to a lot of parties, or raves with a good friend of mine. I'm still new to the game, mostly because I am still in high school. So I am wondering, how should I approach girls on the dance floor? I know that asking them directly will most likely not work, so what else could I do? Keep in mind that talking a lot isn't much if an option as the music is loud as hell and my hearing is kinda bad. |
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| Author: | asesino [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 4:57 am ] |
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if u dance well and look like u r having lots of fun chances are girls will gravitate to you approaching girls on a dance floor is tricky because often times they simply want to be left alone to dance with their girls yet be noticed for validation's sake by other guys without being approached u can risk creepy by approaching a girl while dancing but never do so from the, always approach from where she can clearly see u or u'll certainly creep her out |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 5:03 am ] |
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I'm in high school too. I know exactly the sort of rave you're describing. Dance floor game isn't my specialty, so I won't bother giving details on that. There are closes to be had there... I know plenty of people who get make outs at those, gotten a couple myself. I've never seen someone find a girlfriend there though. There's no talking, so there's no connection. Even if you got a number after a make out, she wouldn't answer it unless you're extremely hot. The one exception I know are groups of true ravers that usually go to smaller, more underground scenes. They spin poi and many are artists and that sort, so much of their social circle is created at these raves. If you want to get into that sort of social circle, one that frequents these raves often, that's the only way I see you getting sex or a girlfriend out of this venue. Message me if you want to talk about strategy for that. |
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| Author: | Datguy [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 6:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dancing with girls? |
Quote: I know that asking them directly will most likely not work, so what else could I do?
How do you know it won't work if you haven't even tried? You can't discard an option until you go and actually try it.
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| Author: | Di_oxin [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 12:37 pm ] |
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I have tried just going up to girls and asking, I almost always get a no for an answer. Also @ Slip n Slide Those raves are exactly what I am going too. I'll send you a PM |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 12:40 pm ] |
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I always ask girls to dance. Or actually, I don't even ask them. I walk up and put my hand out before even saying hello. Can't remember the last time I actually introduced myself on the dance floor. Put hand out = opener. Dancing = escalating. Easy to find out how attracted she is to you through this. Then I usually put her hands around my shoulders. If she's comfortable with this, I can practically kiss her and she won't reject me. If I put her arms around me but I'm still not sure whether or not it's green light, I put my forehead to her forehead. If she's alright with THAT, then I definitely can just move in for the kiss. Dancing. So much easier than talking. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 12:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dancing with girls? |
Quote: Alright so lemme get a few things off my back first. I like to go to a lot of parties, or raves with a good friend of mine. I'm still new to the game, mostly because I am still in high school. So I am wondering, how should I approach girls on the dance floor? I know that asking them directly will most likely not work, so what else could I do? Keep in mind that talking a lot isn't much if an option as the music is loud as hell and my hearing is kinda bad.
I do not advise raves, since raves are too much jumping around which does not allow escalation... Club game none verbal approach from the front 35-45 degrees and dance then escalate.. |
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| Author: | silverito [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 7:20 pm ] |
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Quote: Then I usually put her hands around my shoulders. If she's comfortable with this, I can practically kiss her and she won't reject me. If I put her arms around me but I'm still not sure whether or not it's green light, I put my forehead to her forehead. If she's alright with THAT, then I definitely can just move in for the kiss. . 
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