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Author:  hardkink [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 5:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Did I read this girl wrong?

So I've been seeing this waitress for about 3-4 weeks. Then her and her boyfriend went to California for spring break. When she got back I hit her up and asked how her trip was and she was short texting me real bad, one word yes/no/good/OK answers. Well I went and ate lunch at the restaurant she works at. Well I had a different waitress and she didn't come by. So I just kinda ignored her. About and hour after I left I got a text. "U couldn't say hi?!?!" Well I guess she isn't done with me after all. I think I played my cards wrong too. I apologized and explained that she seemed busy. I said she was short with me and her California trip seemed to rekindle some feelings for her boyfriend and I was just being respectful of that. She simply said "it's cool" and I've never heard back.

Should I still believe we're done? Why would she text me to say that? She was obviously perturbed, but why wait an hour later? Why didn't she come say hi herself? She wasn't really all that busy, I saw her talking to the other wait staff a few times. I'm of course still gaming and fucking other girls. But it would be nice to get an outside opinion on this.

Author:  Costa-T [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 5:37 pm ]
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You did the right thing by absolutely ignoring her because she was being cold with you. She only texted you because she wants you to chase after her and give her the attention she needs in case things don't go well with her bf. Move on buddy and forget about the whole thing, don't overthink it because if you want the truth, she'd already made up her mind about the two of you the minute she went on holiday with her bf.
Just stay out there and keep gaming the girls out there

Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 5:39 pm ]
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Why is this chick in your dome so hard?

You need to answer that for yourself first bud.

Then, understand this - at this stage, she has control... If you want to fuck this chick - you need to refresh, renew, randomize, incite excitement, and be that 'mistake' she's secretly wanting to make...

If you want a relationship - well, I can't help. I am in dark place: Women are chicks to be fucked, nothing more to me at this stage in my life...but I wish you well.

Author:  hardkink [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 5:55 pm ]
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Why is this chick in your dome so hard?

You need to answer that for yourself first bud.

Then, understand this - at this stage, she has control... If you want to fuck this chick - you need to refresh, renew, randomize, incite excitement, and be that 'mistake' she's secretly wanting to make...

If you want a relationship - well, I can't help. I am in dark place: Women are chicks to be fucked, nothing more to me at this stage in my life...but I wish you well.
Oh no, not at all looking for a relationship. This chick was just a hookup, I guess she felt guilty, or whatever. Girls come and go. I've figured that out, just weird how she got pissy about the lack of attention after blowing me off. I was always just a side dish anyway.

Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 6:02 pm ]
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Why is this chick in your dome so hard?

You need to answer that for yourself first bud.

Then, understand this - at this stage, she has control... If you want to fuck this chick - you need to refresh, renew, randomize, incite excitement, and be that 'mistake' she's secretly wanting to make...

If you want a relationship - well, I can't help. I am in dark place: Women are chicks to be fucked, nothing more to me at this stage in my life...but I wish you well.
Oh no, not at all looking for a relationship. This chick was just a hookup, I guess she felt guilty, or whatever. Girls come and go. I've figured that out, just weird how she got pissy about the lack of attention after blowing me off. I was always just a side dish anyway.
Wait 48 hours, send a random text from out of left field - build a role play scenario if she reponds. Use time differentials when responding... If she responds in 5 minutes, you wait 10. If she repsonds in 30, you wait 45. This builds the illusion you don't text often, and she has to wait on you - which makes her realize you have more important shit to do than to keep 'friending' some random chick.

If she bites - escelate the role play sexually. Keep it benign until she jumps on board and wants to play - thus building the illusion you can create a fantasy world; your texts will offer a smile and an escape... Use inuendo etc, and set up a date. If she shit tests with "I've got a boyfriend"... Simply respond "I'm sure he's a great guy - I was talking about you and I meeting for a drink(or coffee/burger/tiddly winks... whatever...)". If she's fun... you can jab at her and say "I know... a BOYfriend. When you're ready for a man - I might be interested...".

If she's flirting and getting sexual - you're already in her skull. Let it marinate if need be, but that's a perfect phase-shift from random text to F-closing in person...

Author:  hardkink [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 6:26 pm ]
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I've already done all that and slept with her. Hint, "I've been seeing this girl". Reading comprehension, you lack it.

I was just talking about the above questions, not how to get her back. Because I'm really not worried about that aspect.

Author:  asesino [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 6:39 pm ]
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Get her out, stop ruminating over this shit. If she is aloof and can't be bothered to give you the time of day move on. You can analyze this till the cows come home and it wont mean squat. Less thinking, more action.

Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 7:39 pm ]
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I've already done all that and slept with her. Hint, "I've been seeing this girl". Reading comprehension, you lack it.

I was just talking about the above questions, not how to get her back. Because I'm really not worried about that aspect.
Gotcha...


So,now it just sounds like you're whining.

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