Cat string theory is about getting her to jump through your hoops
while her still tugging on the hooking points in order to get her
to invest in you. If you show too much attention towards her
than that's why you're failing. In order for CST to work
it has to play out that you make her jump through
your hoops, get her invested, interested and
attracted all the while as you don't seem
to really care too much about it. Like,
why does she deserve your
attention? What makes her
different from the other girls?
Why should you spend her time investing
in her and not vice versa for other etectera?
Girls do the EXACT same thing. Once you
flip the tables then they know you're
not like other guys and you
show that alpha male dominance
and confidence...that's when the
attraction sparks and she starts
investing in that spark. Coming off as
arrogant, confident and alpha is very attractive.
Now back to the theory.
Think of it like this: If you
get a feather for a cat and you dangle it
just above it's head and out of it's grasp
it's going to battle to get that feather, right?
But if you dangle the feather, then
just let it drop at the cats feet,
that cat is no longer interested
because it's not fun anymore.
What has the cat got to work
for anymore if it's just got this
boring fragment that is no fun anymore?
Yes you negged, but if you neg a girl too
much it just shows that you don't respect her enough
to be nice to her, hence lowering your own value
and her just saying "Well this guy is an asshole. Why
waste my time with a jerk? Fuck this..." MAJOR
turn off.
In order to combat this you should neg, then after
a while make her jump through a hoop in a compliance
test...then REWARD her for that compliance. Why were
you negging her for good compliance? If she was into
you, that's an IOI and she was initially investing in
you and you got pre-selected
because of that...but you then reward her
compliance with more negs? That's losing the plot
altogether brother!
I'd say go back to basics and read over
Magic Bullets or the MM again, and mainly,
cut down on the negging and learn to
compliment women by rewarding
their compliance. A simple "Wow,
thank you
You can now wear my hat"is sufficient for inDirect game man...