On Wednesday my gf and her friend are going for a 'catch up' with this dude I we all know.
He's a nice guy and moves in similar circles to me. I'd say he has pretty high value etc.
Anyway my GF asked me if I wanted to come along, I will be in work in the area until the early afternoon, but that is when they plan to meet up for drinks anyway...I just said I would see what time we get finished etc. but that it sounded cool.
It would be good to see my GF and the others, but I am just wondering how best to come out of this meet up smelling of roses.
You might be asking why I'm so conscious of this?
Well basically, towards the start of my relationship with my GF I was dosing off in my place after a bit of drinking when I overheard her and the same girl talking about this dude we're all friends with. To cut a long story short my GF's friend thinks he is hot but he has a GF...my GF then proceeded to agree and said she would probably have been interested in him if she hadn't already met me.
I have absolutely no problem with this at all; its perfectly natural to feel that way and the crucial thing is of course 'if she hadn't met me'.
However, I feel a competitive streak growing in me now so firstly do I show up on wednesday?
Secondly, if I do so, what are some basic pointers to come out of such a meet up with better value etc.
