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| Author: | Mike1 [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 7:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Day 2 - Logistics question |
Hello, I need some help with a logistics question I have. I'm working on my game to improve. On Day 2, when I try to bounce her to my place, what is a good way to bring this up? I have tried "Do you want to come by to my place and catch a movie", but not having any consistent success with that. What would be a good thing to say, to bounce her to my place? I can usually K-close on Day 2. Thanks for your help. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 7:50 pm ] |
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I used to say come over and check out my fishtank (I never had a fishtank) however Here is my favorite over the last couple of years. "lets get the fuck out of here, I live just over here xxx, do you want to follow me or just take my car?" Assume the lay is gonna happen and she likely will too, This skirts the ASD and puts the decision and responsibility for sex out of her hands. |
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| Author: | doclift [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 8:53 pm ] |
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I agree with detox75. I've even used a fish tank line too lol. If you're not ballsy enough to do that, then try one of these two methods: 1) Invite her over to see something that you DO own. It can be anything as long as you talk about it with passion. I've talked girls into coming over to see my bonsai tree, seriously... a tree haha. Hold eye contact and smirk the entire time you're talking about it. If you stay flirty with it, sex is implied. 2) If I'm at a bar or club, I pull the ol' "I'm tired of paying for drinks in the place, we're going to my house. The bartenders hotter there anyway." Notice that I insist instead of invite. Like detox said, assume the lay. |
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| Author: | Mike1 [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 10:10 pm ] |
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Thank you detox75 and doclift for the great input, shall try these out. When is the timing of when you say this? Is it right after the makeout/K-close? I realize from the replies, that I did not have eye-contact the last couple of times when I brought this up - since we were both walking. Will avoid making this mistake next time. Thanks again. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 10:51 pm ] |
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strong eye contact, especially at the beginning of the date, is the single most important, and easiest thing you should work on. I consciously put this on my checklist of things to do in the first 10 seconds as Item #1. As far as make out and k-closing before pulling her to your house, I cant comment as I no longer do that. I think it defuses sexual tension and works against getting laid. Ive had this argument with this community repeatedly and i'm in the minority for being fairly set against strong physical escalation in public, unless absolutely needed, like at a dance club. So I dont want to comment about that because 9/10 guys here ill tell you to start feeling her up and making out with girls in public asap. |
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| Author: | Lockdown [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 10:57 pm ] |
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There's that whole idea about starting the date either at yours or hers, possibly leaving something behind, so that you can then go back there logistically. Watching a movie sounds kind of generic, maybe try something way more creative than that. Calibrate it to her personality, maybe make it to do with something you've been telling her about, e.g a cool album you want to play her, a great piece of artwork you'd like to show her, depending on the chick etc. Another great one is cooking dinner as a date. Date = at your place, women love a guy who can cook, and it allows you to run game in an environment you have total control over. |
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| Author: | Mike1 [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 11:41 pm ] |
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Thank you detox75 and Lockdown for the replies. Great point on the eye-contact thing. I had been working on that and finally seem to have gotten it down, for the most part. It is amazing what a difference it makes, not only in PU but also in day to day interactions in general. This is an acquired trait for me, so I tend to on this aspect every once in a while. Appreciate the input. Lockdown, thank you for the feedback. You're right, the movie thing comes off generic...and now that I think about it, there are at least two other things I could have brought up that would perhaps be more compelling, as it would add a personal touch. Shall keep in mind for next time. |
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| Author: | Lockdown [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 11:53 pm ] |
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No problem bro, anything else, ask in here or feel free to PM any time
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