| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| How am I supose to be different. https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=132263 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | traffic247 [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 2:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | How am I supose to be different. |
There is this girl which I like. She is one of the hottest girl in my college shes never had a boyfriend. Now many other guys are after her as well. We talk a lot since we are in some of the same class's and i also sit next to her in some classes. She told me that like every guy gives her the same cheesy lines and that they will be honest with her. How am I suppose to stand out from the rest? Now my question is that what approach should I use with her? and what things I should do to build attraction and trust? considering that she gets moved to by many guys. |
|
| Author: | DJ_Z [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 3:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
Game other girls |
|
| Author: | titanman [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 10:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
"honest with her" That's not a bad thing. She probably means AFCs tell her how much they love her etc but you can walk up and be honest, say she's hot and you wanna take her out. That takes balls and isn't AFC if you come across confident. But yes, you can just game others. |
|
| Author: | pumpington [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 11:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
ask her what the cheesy lines are, then use them on her, start flirting with her, then ask her out, start texting her, if she flakes, stop and go meet other girls, if she comes to you, slowly withdraw attention until she wants it, be awesome, keep steady with frame of, she contacts, you invite, if she flakes, you are busy, the more she flakes, the less time you have to talk to her but you are busy, not butthurt or needy, you want to keep her in an attractive flirty fun frame, where she assosiates positive emotions to you if you start seeing signs like I miss you, or similar signs like she is getting irritated that she can't get your attention, good, eventually she will meet with you, when you meet with her, continue flirting and build compliance GOOD LUCK |
|
| Author: | Ezo [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 12:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
If you are new to this, I dont recommend starting with a girl that means anything to you. You are just gonna mess things up. Some thoughts: You already know this girl so forget all about value based game and flipping attraction switches. She wants honesty and who can blame her, that is the way to go. This is just like getting out of the LJBF zone so you need to actually build a relationship with her and connect with her on a deep level. You are talking about something more than just a pickup, you are talking about falling in love. You two need to get your emotional sides connected and that means showing her your true self, you cannot fake stuff like this. Just dont be ashamed of who you are. The only way I can see you solving this is to be honest with her but above all with yourself. You like her and you want to be with her, now, if you respect her and really want her to be happy too, you need to see if that is what she wants too. Now think about if she will be happy with you and just doesnt know it yet or if she will be happier without you. Brutal honesty, sorry about that but it is true. You need to accept who you are and respect who you are, when you truly feel like you are the one for her, be honest and let her know how you feel. I know this isnt what you expected to hear from a PUA but that is my belief. You are asking the wrong guys for advice. We are experts in creating attraction, not love. For any PUA in a situation like this I would say: The time for games is over, now it is up to you and your personality. |
|
| Author: | traffic247 [ Sun Apr 01, 2012 10:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | thanks everyone for all the advice! |
Ezo thanks for your advice..I am not faking stuff, I am just asking for advice in how to stand out from the rest of the crowd and actually build attraction. I know by just being myself I am different. But she tells me that everyone tells her the same cheesy lines and that they like her>I want to know if there is a different way of telling her that i like her, without being cheesy and also different and unique.  Thanks everyone for your advice!!
|
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|