PUA Forum :: She really confuses me

Hey guys,

very long story short, I met a girl one year ago. Had a crush on her and she liked me A LOT aswell, because she was staring at me and was all shy around me, while she is a very flirty and outgoing person. Problem was I was a freaking wussy. One year of staring at each other, her showing clear IoI´s and me doing nothing, because I have had major self esteem and confidence issues. Biggest AFC ever.

Summer vacation hit and I was all mad on myself. I really wanted to improve, so I got to this site and sosuave. I started to apply some game, and found myself dating a few chicks in the summer vacation. My family said I really changed personality wise aswell. I now knew what I was doing wrong with the girl I really like and when school began I wanted to hit on her and ask her out, but I didn´t. EVEN THOUGH SHE STILL WAS INTERESTED IN ME. WTF does this make me???

Now she has gotten a boyfriend a couple of months ago and I really only blame myself for that. I did not make a damn move.

I really want to move on from her, but the problem is it seems like she still digs me. It's just not that obvious anymore. Like when we are working in class I can see her looking at me, out of the corner of her eyes, but she turns away real quick when I catch her. She also stands very close to me sometimes, and follows me around (wherever I go she goes).

I am not a girlfriend stealer. Even though I still like her a lot, I really do not want to draw her away form her current boyfriend.

But what is the best way to go after her when they DO break up naturally? Or have I had my chance? I still have deep feelings for her, so much that I feel kind of guilty when I am out with other girls.

And is it possible that I am seeing things that are not there? Like her looking at me etc is all in my head? That I want her to so my mind is playin tricks with me?

Thanks alot for your help!

P.S. to make things even more complicated, we share class with each other roughly 15 hours a week.

Author:	Deadsargon [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 1:42 pm ]
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Hey guys, very long story short, I met a girl one year ago. Had a crush on her and she liked me A LOT aswell, because she was staring at me and was all shy around me, while she is a very flirty and outgoing person. Problem was I was a freaking wussy. One year of staring at each other, her showing clear IoI´s and me doing nothing, because I have had major self esteem and confidence issues. Biggest AFC ever. Summer vacation hit and I was all mad on myself. I really wanted to improve, so I got to this site and sosuave. I started to apply some game, and found myself dating a few chicks in the summer vacation. My family said I really changed personality wise aswell. I now knew what I was doing wrong with the girl I really like and when school began I wanted to hit on her and ask her out, but I didn´t. EVEN THOUGH SHE STILL WAS INTERESTED IN ME. WTF does this make me??? Now she has gotten a boyfriend a couple of months ago and I really only blame myself for that. I did not make a damn move. I really want to move on from her, but the problem is it seems like she still digs me. It's just not that obvious anymore. Like when we are working in class I can see her looking at me, out of the corner of her eyes, but she turns away real quick when I catch her. She also stands very close to me sometimes, and follows me around (wherever I go she goes). I am not a girlfriend stealer. Even though I still like her a lot, I really do not want to draw her away form her current boyfriend. But what is the best way to go after her when they DO break up naturally? Or have I had my chance? I still have deep feelings for her, so much that I feel kind of guilty when I am out with other girls. And is it possible that I am seeing things that are not there? Like her looking at me etc is all in my head? That I want her to so my mind is playin tricks with me? Thanks alot for your help! P.S. to make things even more complicated, we share class with each other roughly 15 hours a week.

Author:	Zelda [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 3:17 pm ]
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Hey man why is this situation different to any other situation. Game her. Show value, kino (appropriately), make her boyfriend lose value, AMOG him, DHV. Show other girls want you. get a date with another girl and make her jealous. she has a boyfriend, why can't you have a girlfriend?

Author:	Shyy [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 5:32 pm ]
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Hey man, I understand your problem. But if you really want something.. Don't let anything stand in your way. Her having a Boyfriend means nothing.. I was in a similar problem, I really liked this girl about 2 years ago, but she played me, and played me pretty hard. I ended up moving down to Cali away from her.. and last week just went back to visit friends from that state. Me and this girl ended up having sex while she has had an on going relationship for about a year now. She is willing to breakup with her boyfriend for an even better relationship with me. Point of the story is, her bf means nothing if she means everything to you. go for it.. Start by hanging out with her, and getting close.. Do some Kino and get her used to the touching, soon she will be hitting you or playing with you in flirty ways.. After that start that rubbing and cuddling and lead on to kissing.. After that, you're golden. ~Goodluck , Shy~

Author:	Deadsargon [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 6:07 pm ]
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Hey guys thanks for the replys, really appreciate it.. can I ask one last quick question though? Do girls sometimes specifically ignore you when they are into you? Today I sat beside her and she was talking very animately with her guy friend on the other side, but she kind of ignored me.. we had some fluff talk, but from my perspective the attention was mostly on this other dude When I was looking away she did eye me up hard, I know so because a friend told me.

Author:	Shyy [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 6:10 pm ]
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If she is eyeing you then it just means she is shy or she might be scared that she might show her feelings to you or others by talking to you. Just start up conversation.

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Author:	Deadsargon [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 6:19 pm ]
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Okay thanks for the quick reply mate, I notice that sometimes when she is talking to others she often quickly looks into my direction aswell lol. i am starting to like her even more now

Author:	Shyy [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 6:22 pm ]
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Yep. Go for her, and hope something good comes out of it. ~Goodluck , Shy~

Author:	Pbblade [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 7:32 pm ]
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If you do open up on her and get into a conversation, take things very slowly though. People often make the mistake to go to personal when they know the other one is interested which kinda spoils the tension. If You talk to her, keep it strong and do not go into personal life-stories heading towards them friend-zone.

Author:	RetiredRodeo [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 7:39 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: She really confuses me
Quote: Hey guys, very long story short, I met a girl one year ago. Had a crush on her and she liked me A LOT aswell, because she was staring at me and was all shy around me, while she is a very flirty and outgoing person. Problem was I was a freaking wussy. One year of staring at each other, her showing clear IoI´s and me doing nothing, because I have had major self esteem and confidence issues. Biggest AFC ever. Summer vacation hit and I was all mad on myself. I really wanted to improve, so I got to this site and sosuave. I started to apply some game, and found myself dating a few chicks in the summer vacation. My family said I really changed personality wise aswell. I now knew what I was doing wrong with the girl I really like and when school began I wanted to hit on her and ask her out, but I didn´t. EVEN THOUGH SHE STILL WAS INTERESTED IN ME. WTF does this make me??? Now she has gotten a boyfriend a couple of months ago and I really only blame myself for that. I did not make a damn move. I really want to move on from her, but the problem is it seems like she still digs me. It's just not that obvious anymore. Like when we are working in class I can see her looking at me, out of the corner of her eyes, but she turns away real quick when I catch her. She also stands very close to me sometimes, and follows me around (wherever I go she goes). I am not a girlfriend stealer. Even though I still like her a lot, I really do not want to draw her away form her current boyfriend. But what is the best way to go after her when they DO break up naturally? Or have I had my chance? I still have deep feelings for her, so much that I feel kind of guilty when I am out with other girls. And is it possible that I am seeing things that are not there? Like her looking at me etc is all in my head? That I want her to so my mind is playin tricks with me? Thanks alot for your help! P.S. to make things even more complicated, we share class with each other roughly 15 hours a week. If yuou text with her.... start turning towards the 'fun gay'. Be the random-shit generator that screws with her constantly. She'll start viewing oyu as fun and positive whenever she thinks of you. You cultivate this and they'll break up eventually... Once that seems imminent, be the go-to guy. Start DHV'ing shit about having to help a friend from __x_x_x____ crisis... When they exit, you're the nautral shoulder. Phase-shift at that point and try the caveman close. Obviously... that's the slow, good-guy role. You can DLV the BF at odd times to start the process if you want to be more devious... As for the chemistry - you'll assess and re-assess this the entire time, obviously... but if she's succombing to game now, she will later as well. Good luck. Rodeo.

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