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| Author: | DDRQ [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 12:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Chasing without being needy... |
OKay to outline this short. THis girl knows what she is doing... Playing guys seducing them until they give in and she gets bored.I have realized her game quickly and I'm pretty sure she is still seeing me as a challenge.. I have failed with her once. I have a field report here.. Link OKay after that I have escalated... She was losing a bit interest. So I did a freeze out... She has been starting to talk to me again asking if I was too good for them and why I didn;t have time for her etc.. OKay I have read Chief's post about this Here Which makes a lot of sense and got me thinking... So basically. How do I chase her with seeming needy or desperate. I would appreciate detailed replies. Not just escalate, be in control and alpha etc. I need a detailed one here. I know I have to escalate and I always do... I am mostly in control.. Still mixed signals...HELP. |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 1:46 am ] |
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Game other girls |
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| Author: | AmazingArt [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 1:58 am ] |
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You see DDRQ right now your trying to find ways for her to like you. The reason is, because you feel like YOU need to keep her interested and her wants are more important than yours. The thing is this is BS your wants are more important than hers or at least should be more important to you than hers. I want you to think of this scenario for a second " You are sitting in between 10 hot girls and they're all over you trying to touch you all over and kissing you. You push one of the hotties away because there are so many of them. You tell her sorry babe next time (bluntly like you own her). Then the other girls are fighting of whom should give you head. You grab one of them and pull their hair and make out with them and control them. You do whatever you want with these girls and. Now you walk outside to get something while these 9 super hot chicks wait for you to come back and see this girl walking down the street how would you talk to her? Would you act like she's special? Hell no you wouldn't. For you she would just seem like another girl. If anything she better have something special to make sure you like her otherwise you got 9 hoties waiting in your place to suck your cock. That's how you should always feel. You can chase her if you have this mindset "shes just another girl". |
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| Author: | DDRQ [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 7:13 am ] |
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Okay. Thanks for clearing this up. This isn't as hard as I thought it would be... But Yes I have noticed that I like her more than the others. And the others show a lot more interest. So thanks. |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 5:08 pm ] |
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Replace the mindset of you chasing with the mindset of you being playfully persistent. |
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| Author: | Shyy [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 5:49 pm ] |
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You can't chase without seeming as needy. The girl that wants to be a challenge will WANT to tie the guy down by forcing you to chase.. That's why it's called game in the first place, because it's this game the two of you play to see who loses first ( Admits feelings or obviously wants the other person ). Picking up is not game ( 'Picking Up' - It just helps you understand the basic ideas of being a man and not being afraid to show it ), it's just attracting shallow women that are young and want sex. If she wants to play the game with you, you both are chasing each other to some extent. So to be short, if you did not understand what i said is... Move on if you just want a lay. This girl wants a man she can hold down. You can try and run your routines and be more playful and funnier than other guys to see if that helps break her, but i suggest moving on. ~Goodluck , Shy~ |
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| Author: | DDRQ [ Wed Mar 28, 2012 12:50 am ] |
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So basically she wants a relationship where she is in control? I will continue with the playfully persistent, and I'm not really someone for routines. But if it doesn't work it really isn't that important. |
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| Author: | Shyy [ Wed Mar 28, 2012 1:59 am ] |
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No, She does not want to be in control but she wants to know you are the real deal and will be willing to stay with her after all these games she plays . |
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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Wed Mar 28, 2012 2:52 am ] |
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1. Give space. 2. Persist. 3. Repeat 1 & 2. 4. Do not bring up any sort of rejection. (Hey you didn't call me last night as you promised) 5. Stay sexual. 6. Blame it on her. (You're sexy. It's all your fault.) |
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