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Author:	13yz [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 1:21 am ]
Post subject:	need a major adjustment
Hi, I need some major adjustment When I was 26, met a awesome girl.. things end as they do. Now 34, been out of a relationship for about a year. I have spent sometime trying to be back up to speed. The best example would be some girl says she has a cat, and I reply, uh oh how many cats? We might have a potential crazy cat lady. I end up being more offensive then funny. I know this is strictly a personality thing at this point, and my mouth. I need some sort of directional shift. Maybe someone had a similar problem and they could point me how they 'fixed' it or just anything at this point. I have never had this kind of failure rate.

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Author:	Snarg [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 1:37 am ]
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It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Are you giving her a huge smile when you say things like that?

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Author:	13yz [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 1:46 am ]
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I am not. I would say my facial expression and voice tone are playing the part of I'm really suspecting she could be a crazy cat lady

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Author:	seph89 [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 2:28 am ]
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Been absent from these forums for a while...I agree with Snarg, you need to know how to read the girls and calibrate. Smile, have a playful mood and make sure to MATCH THEIR ENERGY. This is key and is often disregarded by guys who at first lack the social awareness.

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Author:	13yz [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 2:45 am ]
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It has been so consistent that i'm offending and not coming across as being playful or teasing. I hear part of what your saying in matching the energy, as I felt maybe I am sending a wrong kind of vibe in the interaction. I will smile more, I do forget to smile a lot.

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