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Author:  Bearer [ Sun Mar 25, 2012 1:40 am ]
Post subject:  3 girls in one week and still got oneitis?!
So here's the deal...

I've been gaming three girls for a few weeks now. I'll name them HBOneitis, HBHottie and HBExLTR.

HBOneitis is the one I shouldnt want but do (typical scenario). She's only slept with one guy, shes 18 and I don't wana fuck with her head. I've done everything with this chick except F Close, she won't fuck me because 'she doesnt want to get attached' (I told her not to). She's HB8, latina looking and has an ass that fucking blows my mind.

HBHottie is is easily a 9.5, 5 years older and fucking smoking hot. I've been seeing her for about 3 months now, F Closed and I know she's into me but for some reason we don't connect as much as I'd like so something holds me back.

HBExLTR was my girl for over a year in high school, she went travelling and we split..it was nasty and I was AFC as fuck at the time. She works far away from me but the past two times she's been home I F closed her and it was fucking awesome.

I had all three girls this week, three nights in a row. All naked, F Closed HBExLTR, bust a nut all over HBOneitis's tits and HBHottie was so fucked that she just stripped off and fell asleep (she doesnt fuck me at home because she's scared of waking her housemate).

HERES THE PROBLEM:

I met HBOneitis through my best buddy, he gamed her (no F Close) to begin with and then after a while F Closed her friend. I then started seeing her a bit and we've fooled around a few times, most recently last night. I've not been able to get her out my fucking head for about two weeks, even after seeing the other two chicks. IT SUCKS.

So today he gives her a lift into town (where he lives) after she planned to go out with her buddys. I then get a message from him saying she decided she doesnt want to go out anymore and she wants to stay at his...he's asked me whether or not he should game her and like a fucking top wing I've said yes. I can't have my cake and eat it. BUT IT BURNS. Now I can't get that shit off my mind.

So the question is this: How do I cure this oneitis for her? My usual cure is just to man up and game other chicks....but i'm already doing that?!




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Author:  asesino [ Sun Mar 25, 2012 1:51 am ]
Post subject: 
Advance with each girl, and then see if your Oneittis is still there.
Author:  Bearer [ Sun Mar 25, 2012 2:37 am ]
Post subject: 
Thanks for the reply, could you be more specific?

I've F closed two of the three, do you mean advance more in a relationship sense? Or sexual? I don't want a relationship with any of them.

I'm pretty sure I don't want to be gaming HBOneItis if she's been with my buddy tonight, it's too close to home for me and I won't compete with my wing, that defies the whole concept of him being there. Nor will I allow her to feel gratification for winning us both by still gaming her. She needs to see that I won't allow her to fuck me around.

I feel like my game is WEAK if she fools around with him..which makes me want to work harder for her and in turn want her more.

Catche 22??
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sun Mar 25, 2012 3:21 am ]
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Quote:
Thanks for the reply, could you be more specific?

I've F closed two of the three, do you mean advance more in a relationship sense? Or sexual? I don't want a relationship with any of them.

I'm pretty sure I don't want to be gaming HBOneItis if she's been with my buddy tonight, it's too close to home for me and I won't compete with my wing, that defies the whole concept of him being there. Nor will I allow her to feel gratification for winning us both by still gaming her. She needs to see that I won't allow her to fuck me around.

I feel like my game is WEAK if she fools around with him..which makes me want to work harder for her and in turn want her more.

Catche 22??


Keep gaming bro. You will build up an immunity sometime or you will learn how to control and let go whenever you feel like it. Just remember you have options.
Author:  Bearer [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 9:17 am ]
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Ok so it turns out he FClosed her. Props to him man, he did the right thing and I'd of done the same in his situation - he's my No 1 wing and he did everything right by me so I have no animosity towards him.

Yesterday she's messaging me, acting all normal - I asked her where she went out (she doesnt know I know) and she just straight up lies. So right about now I have a massive dose of "Fuck you, hoe" all up in my head.

HBExLTR goes back to work on Wedensday so she'll be off the radar for a bit unless I drive a long way to see her (don't think I can be assed with that). HBHottie is still floating around but I don't see her very often and to be honest I'm starting to get a bit bored with that situation.

Time to find some more girls I think (Anyone in the UK reading this want to game in Nottingham?? I could do with learning some stuff)

In the meantime I might just fuck with HBOneitis a bit - she needs to learn that lying is bad and I will not stand for any bullshit games.

Bearer
Author:  stugots [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 3:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Ummm
Maybe its simply that you just like her a lot. I'm still trying to grasp this concept of oneitis, but I am a bit older. I get it, you shouldn't be totally obsessing about one girl if she's not your gf, actually, you shouldn't be overly obsessive period, but, there's nothing wrong with liking or loving someone..... it sounds like you are dating this women on some sort of conistent basis so you are getting to really know them...right?

Orrrrrrrrrr, it's a simple case of wanting what you don't have (F Closed) with this one...actually, hahaha, that is most likely what it is. :twisted:
Author:  Bearer [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 9:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Ummm
Quote:
Maybe its simply that you just like her a lot. I'm still trying to grasp this concept of oneitis, but I am a bit older. I get it, you shouldn't be totally obsessing about one girl if she's not your gf, actually, you shouldn't be overly obsessive period, but, there's nothing wrong with liking or loving someone..... it sounds like you are dating this women on some sort of conistent basis so you are getting to really know them...right?

Orrrrrrrrrr, it's a simple case of wanting what you don't have (F Closed) with this one...actually, hahaha, that is most likely what it is. :twisted:
Haha that last bit made me laugh. I understand both points....I'm not sure which one I relate to with this situation. If I liked the girl that much I wouldnt of fucked HBExLTR and I wouldnt of almost creamed myself when HBHottie got into bed with no clothes on. But then surely it wouldn't of burnt when she fucked my buddy? It's a tough one.

Anyway HBOneItis has been on my case today with messages so I text her this:

"I'm going to be straight with you now because I don't like games. It turns out I liked you more than I thought I did...but lets just say I had a sudden change of heart. So we will now just be friends without the benefits. Im sure thats cool with you, it's for the best I think. Hope you had a nice day"

She replied with 'Okay I'm sorry for what I did, this makes me really sad blah blah blah' but I'm not supposed to know so I'm like "why what did you do?" and right about now she is trippin and messsaging me trying to work it all out. I'm leaving her hanging as the big dose of 'fuck you' she deserves. OneItis cured...Onwards and upwards gents.

Bearer
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 9:56 pm ]
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This thread should be shown to every oneitis poster around here.

All these guys with oneitis can't even recognize that there are other girls out there. When you have other girls on your plate, not only do you see oneitis for what it is, you're able to get past it.

I personally would see no reason to talk to her again. You handled it very well, enjoy these other women.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 1:18 am ]
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There is absolutely nothing to gain by messing with the girl because she lied to you. She wasn't dating you, she doesn't owe you her honesty. You're just mad that she didnt' have some sort of epiphany that you were the one for her.

Just fuck other girls, christ, you already started.
Author:  Bearer [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 8:04 am ]
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Quote:
There is absolutely nothing to gain by messing with the girl because she lied to you. She wasn't dating you, she doesn't owe you her honesty. You're just mad that she didnt' have some sort of epiphany that you were the one for her.
Completely disagree with this. She was dating me and yes, she does owe me her honesty. I was straight with her from day 1, I told her I don't play games and I don't aprreciate people trying to play games with me either. She then insulted my intelligence by fucking my buddy and expecting that I wouldn't find out - then she lied point blank about it. She deserved to be punished and that's what's happened.

As far as I'm concerned it's now done with, just as this thread is too.

Bearer
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