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Author:  givemethat [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 9:19 pm ]
Post subject:  GF keeps asking if she's pretty. annoying
What can i do to comfort GF about her asking me if she is pretty. she does that often. it's getting a little annoying.

is there a way to comfort her in a way so she'll less ask me the same question ?

thnx
Author:  doclift [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 9:37 pm ]
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I went through this with a girl I dated last summer. Same story. She would constantly ask me if she was pretty, and it quickly got annoying. Ironically, she was one of the most beautiful women I've ever been with. Quick side note: it just goes to show you that even the most gorgeous of girls can be insecure about their appearance. Or perhaps they just want a verbal assurance of your approval. Either way, I digress.

The solution here is to cut the problem off before it occurs. Instead of waiting for her to ask you if she's pretty, tell her. Just straight up tell her she's beautiful, and mean it. Actions speak louder than words so it's important that you're congruent with what you say. When you notice that she's put some time into her appearance, like right after doing her makeup, give her some intense eye contact and tell her that she's beautiful. A classic move of mine is to wrap my arms around a girl as she's finishing up her makeup so that I'm behind her and we're both facing the mirror. Then as stated above, strong eye contact followed by "you're gorgeous." Make her feel it. If you mean it and can successfully communicate it to her, the quality of your relationship will improve tenfold. She'll reciprocate the value that you've given to her and you'll be thankful that you did.
Author:  givemethat [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 10:04 pm ]
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OMG... you do EXACTLY the same as i do... wrapping arms around her just after finishing make up :-)

but... then when we go to bed... ' honey... do you really like my looks ? '

Next morning... make up is wrapped of a bit... ' honey... do you ALSO think i'm pretty like this in the morning ? '


she even once said to me like : ' OMG !!! even michael jackson looks better than me ! '.

So i replied : ' as a matter of fact.... he's dead... there is no similarity between you and him at all ' ( with a big smile )

and just after the moment i said it, i thought...OOOOOPS. But she looked at me and smiled and said ' i love you '.

:roll:
Author:  doclift [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 10:15 pm ]
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Right on! That move is solid. Just keep pressing on. Tease her a little for asking but never belittle or get upset with her over it. I did the same with that girl from last summer. It got to the point where she accused me of not being attracted to her anymore because we weren't having enough sex (apparently 2-3 times a day wasn't enough lol). I would just roll my eyes at her and give her the attention she craved. Towards the end of our pair bonding, I would turn the question around on her. I'd be all greased-up working on my car or all sweaty and dirty from shooting trap and I'd ask her with the most serious face I could make, "do you think I look pretty?" She'd laugh and then life was good. Show her it's ridiculous without actually telling her that.
Author:  givemethat [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 10:18 pm ]
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i'll be doing fine i guess then :-)

thnx for reply !
Author:  doclift [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 10:20 pm ]
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No worries. Hit me up if you have any other questions.
Author:  silverito [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 11:23 pm ]
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Wow you have some complicated problems :))

What I do after she ask that question is I answer something along the lines "Yes you are, do not ask me again, because the answeer will always be the same". Thats it. I am of course smooth with those words. If she asks again I say "look, I already said that you were pretty, stop asking". Thats very simple.
Author:  mapleleaf [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 11:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: GF keeps asking if she's pretty. annoying
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What can i do to comfort GF about her asking me if she is pretty. she does that often. it's getting a little annoying.

is there a way to comfort her in a way so she'll less ask me the same question ?

thnx
Listen man, as a man, and if u really are one, you do NOT tell a woman if she is preety every time she asks you. Period. Telling a woman that she is pretty, every time, or more often, gives her a wrong message in her mind about you. She will start to think you are no challenge, or you are just another guy. She WILL lose interest in you. Next time she asks you if she is preety, just tell, her one of this:
1) You know what, you can actually do better than that
2) Not tonight, I am really not in the mood to check you out.
3) Why dont you tell me how hot I am?
You don't have to limit yourself to these, and feel free to make things up on your own. The basic idea, is to DHV to her all times, even if she is your gf. Remember, from your perspective, she is with you, you are not with her. She comes to you, not you to her. Why? B/C you are a real man, you have higher values than all the girls in the planet. You can get any woman you want. So, next time, she asks you constantly, just get a little annoyed, not too much, and show your anger. If she gets upset, then console her. If not, then she will stop complaining. Remember, DHV is really important. Dominance, dominance, dominance, keep dominating her. You are not calling her ugly, but tell her, that she looks preety, ONLY when you feel like it. Remember, compliments, are rewards, she has to earn it.
Author:  givemethat [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 2:01 pm ]
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What do you mean with 'console her' ?

can u give me some exapmles ?
Author:  Costa-T [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 2:06 pm ]
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How many times did she ask you that and you said yes? and how many times she kept on asking you after you said to her YES.

Now time to get harsh with her, say to her look my darlin ' you are the prettiest girl i know and i didn't think you're pretty then i wouldn't be with you because i have standards' CHILL OUT, my answer will never be any different so there is no point asking me over and over again.
Author:  silverito [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 4:07 pm ]
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How many times did she ask you that and you said yes? and how many times she kept on asking you after you said to her YES.

Now time to get harsh with her, say to her look my darlin ' you are the prettiest girl i know and i didn't think you're pretty then i wouldn't be with you because i have standards' CHILL OUT, my answer will never be any different so there is no point asking me over and over again.
Exactly. I am surprised of how people can not deal with such a simple thing :)
Author:  givemethat [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 4:18 pm ]
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For there are guys who just got into PUA ??? maybe ? ;-)
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