PUA Forum :: Lunch Date

I usually never do lunch/dinner dates because they are boring, but this girl really wanted to go to lunch with me, so I am.

What can I do that will make it more unique or entertaining than a normal date. I am going tomorrow, so would love some good answers by than.

I appreciate it!

Edit:

As of now I was thinking of taking her to a "not so fancy" dinner, in fact its nothing special at all. If not that, I was thinking of taking her to a place that makes amazing crepes. I don't want to ask where she wants to go, I am telling her where we are going.

Second, do I have to pay for both of us? I don't mind but I am curious do I want it to seem like a date.

First off love the chuck e cheeses response hahaha!!!

As usual that was a good response valentine, I did play it off as what ever, cause honestly fuck off I dont need to hear you bitch about a stupid thing. I just wanted to make sure this wasn't like completely fucked over. I just wanted to know how I can restart the convo truthfully. I don't know if I should over text or wait a week till I see her.

Hey, I'm still considered an AFC but I'll toss in my 2 cents.

If my 'friend' did that to me, I might just try to downplay it a bit when I talked to the girl.

I'd say something like: "Yeah, he asked me how the date was, and I told him it went well, I had a good time and it seemed like you liked me and we got along". "I was happy with how it went and that's what I told him". "I didn't use the words 'totally into me', that's just him exaggerating or trying to embarrass me or something".

Anyways man, hope it works out for you.

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Perfect response.

Author:	Entourages [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 8:36 am ]
Post subject:	Lunch Date
I usually never do lunch/dinner dates because they are boring, but this girl really wanted to go to lunch with me, so I am. What can I do that will make it more unique or entertaining than a normal date. I am going tomorrow, so would love some good answers by than. I appreciate it! Edit: As of now I was thinking of taking her to a "not so fancy" dinner, in fact its nothing special at all. If not that, I was thinking of taking her to a place that makes amazing crepes. I don't want to ask where she wants to go, I am telling her where we are going. Second, do I have to pay for both of us? I don't mind but I am curious do I want it to seem like a date.

Author:	Snarg [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 4:46 pm ]
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I really like the idea with the crepes. That's not something people eat every day in the US, so it's pretty unique. And personally, if I wanted to make it look like a date, I'd pay. Many will disagree and pretend you have to act like a hardass and get her to pay. Those people are wrong. Good luck!

Author:	Entourages [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 3:06 pm ]
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Thanks for that tip, she actually grabbed the check from the waitresses hand hahaha, talk about being assertive, she is very proud. But I just took her cash and gave it back to her than paid. She had this puzzled look on her face like what just happened. But she absolutely loved the date, she said like 4 times through out the date how I have to take her back, and after the date as well. I was only upset with one thing, for some reason I took a friends dumbass advice and didn't kiss her. He said its not 100% normal to kiss a girl after a lunch date. I am more european and such and usually date europeans so this isn't the case, and this girl was American, so she was less "kinoish" I guess haha. My question is, snarg, is my friend a fucking tool and I should have kissed her like I wanted to, or was he correct? I am like 95% sure he was incorrect

Author:	Snarg [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 4:25 pm ]
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Nothing to worry about there at all. There's not really a rule when it comes to kissing on the first date. Personally, unless I'm getting insanely strong signals from her, I won't kiss on the first date. It sounds like you did everything right, so be happy. You should definitely go for a kiss by the 2nd or 3rd date, though, or she'll probably lose interest. Just don't feel pressured and let it happen naturally.

Author:	Entourages [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 2:31 am ]
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Kk bro I need mad advice I just got myself in a shit hole... So I told my really good friend in my uni who also knows this girl about my date, and how it went well and she was into me, and he fucking legit told the chick everything... broke every bro code in the book, and she obviously got upset. She txted me 5 mins after i left the table, meaning this faggot didnt even wait 2 mins to tell her, and was like "I am glad you told FAGGOT how I was totally into you on our "date" cute hahaha" After 3 messages i was straight up like I hate drama, I am just ending this, talk to you later Am I pretty much fucked? Seriously, I am more pissed off a bro just broke the sacred bro code, and obviously shit was going good!

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Author:	*FlaiR* [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 3:55 am ]
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Ok yeah that sucks when somebody does that. But listen man..why do you get intimidated?? The response of this girl does not affect at all your ability as a player. Have fun with the situation. Do not look like this affected you. She will use this situation to TEST you to see if you have endurance like a true man. When she says: "I am glad you told FAGGOT how I was totally into you on our "date" cute hahaha" you say: "Haha awww..thanks..you're cute too!!" I think you still have this man don't worry..that guy is clearly trying to block your path with this girl but don't lose your focus on your goal here. Remain calm and dominant. Being relaxed and comfortable around women are the main characteristics of a dominant man. Show that what this faggot did is not affecting you at all. Play it like you know how you can play it and run your game as usual. For the kissing thing..it all depends on calibration. If the girl is really into you..you can kiss at the first date no problem..but if you think you would need another date..kiss on the 2nd date that's up to you mate! Now go close this girl..men have built planes, civilisations and you are being intimidated by a 130 pound girl?? You create your own reality..in your own reality this faggot does not exist and in your own reality this situation has done nothing wrong to your game. Remember..even if she says fuck off..a true player knows that the response of one girl cannot affect his ability to get girls. Have fun man! Good luck!

Author:	asesino [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 4:10 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Lunch Date
Quote: I usually never do lunch/dinner dates because they are boring, but this girl really wanted to go to lunch with me, so I am. What can I do that will make it more unique or entertaining than a normal date. I am going tomorrow, so would love some good answers by than. I appreciate it! Edit: As of now I was thinking of taking her to a "not so fancy" dinner, in fact its nothing special at all. If not that, I was thinking of taking her to a place that makes amazing crepes. I don't want to ask where she wants to go, I am telling her where we are going. Second, do I have to pay for both of us? I don't mind but I am curious do I want it to seem like a date. Take her to chuck e cheeses

Author:	Entourages [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 6:49 am ]
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First off love the chuck e cheeses response hahaha!!! As usual that was a good response valentine, I did play it off as what ever, cause honestly fuck off I dont need to hear you bitch about a stupid thing. I just wanted to make sure this wasn't like completely fucked over. I just wanted to know how I can restart the convo truthfully. I don't know if I should over text or wait a week till I see her.

Author:	asesino [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 7:26 am ]
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Quote: First off love the chuck e cheeses response hahaha!!! As usual that was a good response valentine, I did play it off as what ever, cause honestly fuck off I dont need to hear you bitch about a stupid thing. I just wanted to make sure this wasn't like completely fucked over. I just wanted to know how I can restart the convo truthfully. I don't know if I should over text or wait a week till I see her. are you delusional?

Author:	*FlaiR* [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 11:09 am ]
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Don't overtext and don't wait 1 week...text her normally like this thing never happened

Author:	Snarg [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 1:34 pm ]
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Do everything Valentyn said, plus castrate your "friend". Seriously, remove him from your life. That's fucking bullshit and I'm pissed for you.

Author:	VV Cephei [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 2:22 pm ]
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Hey, I'm still considered an AFC but I'll toss in my 2 cents. If my 'friend' did that to me, I might just try to downplay it a bit when I talked to the girl. I'd say something like: "Yeah, he asked me how the date was, and I told him it went well, I had a good time and it seemed like you liked me and we got along". "I was happy with how it went and that's what I told him". "I didn't use the words 'totally into me', that's just him exaggerating or trying to embarrass me or something". Anyways man, hope it works out for you.

Author:	Snarg [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 2:38 pm ]
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Quote: Hey, I'm still considered an AFC but I'll toss in my 2 cents. If my 'friend' did that to me, I might just try to downplay it a bit when I talked to the girl. I'd say something like: "Yeah, he asked me how the date was, and I told him it went well, I had a good time and it seemed like you liked me and we got along". "I was happy with how it went and that's what I told him". "I didn't use the words 'totally into me', that's just him exaggerating or trying to embarrass me or something". Anyways man, hope it works out for you. Perfect response.

Author:	stugots [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 2:58 pm ]
Post subject:	Dont get rattled...
Quote: Quote: Hey, I'm still considered an AFC but I'll toss in my 2 cents. If my 'friend' did that to me, I might just try to downplay it a bit when I talked to the girl. I'd say something like: "Yeah, he asked me how the date was, and I told him it went well, I had a good time and it seemed like you liked me and we got along". "I was happy with how it went and that's what I told him". "I didn't use the words 'totally into me', that's just him exaggerating or trying to embarrass me or something". Anyways man, hope it works out for you. Perfect response. You're friend is a douche, but I think if you down play like people said and as the Master Valentyne said, just go by things are normal you should be fine. I can't imagine a college girl getting that upset about it. Also, if you she does like you, I mean even modestly, or at the very least respects you, thinks your cool, etc., she doesn't care, she may even be very flattered underneath it all. This happened to me once, much more embarrassing though. One of those first girls I got together with after I got separated was an old girl I used to date that now lives in Chicago. She was in town visiting her gfs, she knew my story, she asked me to join them, I did. Anyway, the chemistry was still there. One random friend of hers asked her about meeting anyone interesting, or something to that affect and we immediately looked at each other and smiled and she grabbed my hand under the table...anyway, it was kind of cool that someone I hadn't seen in, shit, 6 years, who was never really my "gf" I could still have chemistry with - it made me feel real good. Anyway, we all had a blast, at the end of the night there's just three of us at some random bar. I txted my buddy how I think I found my first lay after my wife, I just need to get rid of her fugly friend. Well, her friend saw some of this exchange...definitely not the part of her being fugly, thank god, but the first part. When my girl gets back from the bathroom, her fugly friend is actually doing the cool thing and trying to leave to live us both alone. That unffortunately doesn't happen, we make out for a bit, then she leaves. All and all, I thought it was a good first night out for a guy recently broken up with his wife. I then get a txt later from her, similiar to what you got something like, "OMG, I can't believe you would say that" but she's laughing in the txt. then other stuff like, I can't just ditch my gfs, there all I got, blah blah...I start vehemetly apologizing (I know wrong move, but take into consideration where I am in my life right now)....she even writes back, "J, stop apologizing, its not a big deal, I'm actually very, very flattered you'd want me as your first." or something to that affect.... We're still friendly to this day, she's still live in Chicago, so no relationship thing is ever possible, and yeah, we've hooked up a few times when I had to go out on business, but the point, she didn't care I was talking about, shit, wanting to bang her, let alone a great first date, she even kind of liked it..point, if she likes you, she likes you, she probably thinks your friend is a big douche as well. J

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Author:	Entourages [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 5:35 pm ]
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I honestly don't feel the need to apologize, you are all saying that is what I should do. To be honest, a whole day passed, I rather not bring it up at all. But if you guys really do feel the best thing would be to apologize for talking about "us" behind her back than what ever floats your boat.