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Author:  Pbblade [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 9:13 pm ]
Post subject:  I need to know my transition with this girl. Quick advice!
Complex situation, very complex.

I've recently got back in touch with a friend of mine (HB9). I got to get to know her after she broke up with my back then best friend. Ever since then we started talking and developed feelings for eachother. I was a very uncertain person with low self-esteem back then so I just couldn't make the move. After that I got myself into a LDR and we lost contact.

Today she opened up on my with a normal hello ,how are you doing blablabla and we took off from that moment. We started talking to eachother and I noticed how much she has changed (In a good way), I kinda developed my interests again and I'm not sure how to transition into a good way rather then getting friendzoned.

We had a really good talk, lots of ioi's, flirting and jokes and she opened up quite well. At one point we are talking about relationships and she mentioned this guy that screwed her over, so I pretty much bashed him etc, and after that she transitions to our moments, when we used to have feelings for eachother saying she really wanted us to be together blablabla.

I told her a bit about me, my mindset and stuff like that and she really liked it.

Should I just ask her out for a day 2 , should I keep building comfort & rapport, should I keep going deep into convo's or should I chill out before I might get friendzoned?

Need some advice!
Author:  lvl80retpaladin [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 9:17 pm ]
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Go in hardcore dude, ask her out on a date. Be like "I want to be in a relationship with you, lets go on a date and see how things go."

You need to be the man here. Most people get friendzoned because they're too scared to make a move. Best way to get over that? Make a fucking BIG move. People are friendzoned because they don't show interest. A move like that, lets her know you're interested.
Author:  Pbblade [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 9:34 pm ]
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Go in hardcore dude, ask her out on a date. Be like "I want to be in a relationship with you, lets go on a date and see how things go."

You need to be the man here. Most people get friendzoned because they're too scared to make a move. Best way to get over that? Make a fucking BIG move. People are friendzoned because they don't show interest. A move like that, lets her know you're interested.
Big thanks for this, dont think I have to say much more ;)

I'm still not at the point of one-itus'ing this girl so best to make my move quickly before I do get into akward situations.
Author:  Pbblade [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 10:05 pm ]
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Booya, I set up a day 2 with her, well.. not entirely but pretty much.

Decided to go for a picknick (Stupid idea) this weekend, the only problem is, She agreed to do so if the weather was good, I gotta try and find a way to find a plan B.

I only hated the one and only thing about myself. DRIVERS LICENSE!

Received the question ''how do we get there''. SO i was like Yeh.. I dont have a driver listen so we could go by bike? =.=. Awesommeeeee!
Author:  smokeit [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 10:15 pm ]
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Booya, I set up a day 2 with her, well.. not entirely but pretty much.

Decided to go for a picknick (Stupid idea) this weekend, the only problem is, She agreed to do so if the weather was good, I gotta try and find a way to find a plan B.

I only hated the one and only thing about myself. DRIVERS LICENSE!

Received the question ''how do we get there''. SO i was like Yeh.. I dont have a driver listen so we could go by bike? =.=. Awesommeeeee!
Don't trip on this. IMPORTANT

I lost my licence for a year (DUI). It sucks, but use this to your advantage!

Not being able to drive has not effected my GAME.

Does she drive? Do you live in a metropolitan area? train? Maybe she can meet you there?
Author:  lvl80retpaladin [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 12:59 am ]
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Stop being so hard on yourself man. You are the BOMB. If I were a girl, I would go out with you. I'm going to mention to you a practice I mentioned in another thread, called gremlin taming. Your gremlin is essentially the man in your head that is giving you these negative thoughts. If you notice these thoughts, and then notice that these are your gremlin, the thoughts go away. Try it. Also, check out the book.


http://www.amazon.com/Taming-Your-Greml ... dp_product

And forget about a plan B. You don't need one.
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