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| Author: | Zolstice [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Pissed off at the perfect girl? |
Here's the situation, I have never had a girlfriend before and I'm 20. It has been destroying me just the fact that I have never kissed a girl or been with a girl and that it's socially devaluing for me to admit to a girl that I have not. Met a girl, we made out and established we like each other. I have told her many of my flaws and she still accepts me. She tells me she is not ready for a relationship and that she's scared of commitment. She's scared that I will get too comfortable and things get boring. What the fuck do I respond to that? I am more pissed off than anything right now because I don't want to let her go since she knows me so well and still accepts me but at the same time I don't want to have to wait until I'm 90 for her. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:10 am ] |
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Well she has all the cards in her hands. You gave them to her. First of all, lets get things straight, there is no such thing as a perfect girl. To spike her interest I suggest you work on yourself more than anything. SPAM your insecurities like that won't help you in any way;instead you should work on having none. Live your life and stop holding back. It's not the end of the world if you haven't kissed a girl, never had a girlfriend, and not meeting the right one right away. |
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| Author: | motownsoul [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:11 am ] |
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Just know that its not the end of the world....Shit, I was in your shoes once man...Being out of highschool, possibly in college...everyone around is fucking...and you're a virgin...it can feel miserable...but only as much as you let it....In retrospect, from my experience, even though i never talked about it, i can see everyone knew...and also as i got older and realized the ways women throw themselves at men....i looked back, and was like god damnit....i wish i learned this stuff back then..because i can think of so many times....every girl i've wanted to fuck back in my 16-18 aged years.....threw themselves at me...they knew i wasnt fuckin any girls...and they loved the idea of being my first....but i couldnt see that shit back then. So my advice for you....dont sweat the small stuff bro....use it all to your advantage...if you're confident, funny, and awesome to be around....girls will go crazy trying to think of reasons why you're a virgin...and a lot of them will even be like "why isnt he trying to fuck me?"...and start doing crazy things to try to get your attention for you to make a move......you just gotta keep your eyes open and be aware..keep reading things on this forum, and you'll do good. As for the current girl.....freeze her out....it will show her that you're not a needy insecure boy...and it will give her time to realize how much she likes you and wants you in her life. |
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