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| Author: | pumpington [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 11:04 am ] |
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| Author: | Franc32 [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 12:09 pm ] |
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I would say keep LJBF for a while, ignore her for a while. The reason she is still texting you is because she is still interested. think about it... would you text a girl that often to ask how she is if you LJBF her a while ago ? She is still leaving you some IOI's. Don't be the AFC anymore, this will only kill attraction and you will lose her anyway. when she is texting you, just awnser like you would awnser to a friend. short and direct. Maybe even let her know you are busy doing 'things' and hanging out with friends. Don't text her back whitin seconds or minutes. wait a day or two or maybe even longer. you must give her the time to let het miss you. If you text her back to soon, she will not create this feeling of missing you. Probably after a while she will text you that she is missing you and wants to meet... don't respond directly. tell her you're busy and after let's say one week you could ask her to have a drink somewhere. She needs some time to get this 'i miss him' feeling. I think the reason why she didn't want you to touch her is a shit test. Just to see how you will react... don't worry, you'll be fine ! greet |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 10:35 pm ] |
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TEN FUCKING MONTHS?!!! Let's get this out the way, you can't game a girl for 10 months. If you take that freakin long, you were probably friendzoned 9 months and two weeks into it. The dreaded "LJBF" line comes when a girl gets comfortable with the friendship. If you escalate physically and sexually before you develop a close friendship, that is much tougher to do. |
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| Author: | Spike007 [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 2:20 am ] |
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I dated a girl that told me something that I never forgot (She told me that because 90% were guys and I made a comment about it). "When a woman meet a guy, it doesn't take long to put him in the 'Potentials' or 'Friends Zone'". 10 months? You were there wayyyy before 10 months. Move on, plenty of fish in the sea. It's why "Good Guys" get friendzoned because they act like any girlfriend that a chick wants. |
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| Author: | lvl80retpaladin [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 9:03 pm ] |
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Your goal here is to just accept it man. Whenever we feel things slipping away, we want to gain control of it. The key is to just accept it. Whenever a girl loses interest, let it go. She isn't feeling the spark because you're holding onto the relationship when you feel it slipping away. Let things go, and maybe she'll feel the spark later. The key to letting relationships happen, is to let them slip away. |
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| Author: | fortyfour [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 10:23 pm ] |
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I would say put this chick on the back burner and pursue other women, then later, like SEVERAL MONTHS later, you can meet up with her and she will kind of miss you, and then you need to really blow her away with how different you are and you might have a chance. I can tell you there is no fucking way it's going anywhere now so you have nothing to lose by this strategy... |
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