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Author:  gtdave [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 7:51 pm ]
Post subject:  How to reject a girl while keeping her as an option?!
I've started to exclusively date a HB9 but I've also got another HB8 chasing me pretty hard! I'd a date planned for tomorrow with the HB8 but I'm going to cancel as it just doesn't feel right as I'm with the HB9!

How do I let down HB8 easy while keeping her as an option just in case the HB9 doesn't work out?

Both girls dont know each other and I've no Facebook so I was thinking of telling HB8 that I'm not ready to date as I'm too busy with work but I'd love to remain friends?

What would you guys say?
Author:  Costa-T [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 7:57 pm ]
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You're fucked up, don't try and play two girls at the same time because it will back fire at you. Get some balls and tell HB8 that you are with someone else now, if you don't like being messed about then don't mess someone else about. Just like how you'd want to know where you stand with a girl, they deserve the same thing. Being a PUA is not about messing about girls, and if you're here for that reason then i suggest you get out now!
Author:  gtdave [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 8:00 pm ]
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You're fucked up, don't try and play two girls at the same time because it will back fire at you. Get some balls and tell HB8 that you are with someone else now, if you don't like being messed about then don't mess someone else about. Just like how you'd want to know where you stand with a girl, they deserve the same thing. Being a PUA is not about messing about girls, and if you're here for that reason then i suggest you get out now!
I don't want to mess her about, that's not my intention! I want to be faithful to the HB9 but if there was a way to let down the HB8 that keeps the door open in the future then I'm all ears...
Author:  Costa-T [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 8:06 pm ]
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Being honest with someone is by telling her that you are getting serious with someone else. That way she won't be hurt much, and she won't have to wait around. No girl would accept being a 2nd option. My best answer would be is to go for the person with the better personality because looks aren't everything in this world. If you don't work things with HB9 then you've lost HB8. Make a wise decision before you regret it later
Author:  gtdave [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 8:11 pm ]
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Being honest with someone is by telling her that you are getting serious with someone else. That way she won't be hurt much, and she won't have to wait around. No girl would accept being a 2nd option. My best answer would be is to go for the person with the better personality because looks aren't everything in this world. If you don't work things with HB9 then you've lost HB8. Make a wise decision before you regret it later
Yea cheers, your probably right! HB9 has the better personality too! Guess I was trying to protect myself from getting too invested with the HB9 and becoming needy as it's been perfect so far! I'll tell the HB8 I've met someone
Author:  EddieFews [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 8:28 pm ]
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You can date them both, and its cool if your completely honest with the both of them.. There was a time in which I had 3 girlfriends and I told them each that I had other girlfriends. I had my own little explanation for it and because I was completely honest they went with it.. However, it usually doesn't play out to well in the long run in todays society.

Don't forget, there was a time when men had 4 or 5 wives and that was acceptable, the social system of today tell us its wrong but its all a matter of perception.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 8:36 pm ]
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Hello Dave, my PUA brother.

I have a gentleman's rule when it comes to dating women.

RULE 1: If you have to tell a lie, tell an outrageous one so the girl knows that you're lying but doesn't feel bad about it. Instead, she'll be laughing so hard because you're a MASSIVE FAIL when it comes to lying.

RULE 2: Honesty is the best policy. At one point, I got involved with three women. They all knew that I've been having sex with them and it wasn't an issue since I told them earlier about the truth. Their reaction was: May the best girl win. I have been having too much sex daily for six months or so. End result? I ended up sticking to one since it's counter-productive to work.

The point is, YOU'RE the hot man. HB9 and HB8 should realize that if they don't treat you special, someday an HB10 will come along. At the end of the game, it's the HB who treats you well who will win. Choose the HB, whether she's an 8 or a 10, who treats you like a king. For now, those two hot babes have to work hard to win you over. :twisted:
Author:  Kathleen1980 [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 11:46 pm ]
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i dont understand what the fuss is about. having several women as parallel relationships would be bad. but dating two at the same time = at an early stage, where is the harm??
Author:  DJ_Z [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 12:34 am ]
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i dont understand what the fuss is about. having several women as parallel relationships would be bad. but dating two at the same time = at an early stage, where is the harm??
You are correct, however that's not what the OP wants. he only wants to date one of these girls and reject the other. However, he doesn't want to things to go badly with girl A and then find that girl B found herself a boyfriend. Dating multiple people isn't bad, but wanting to keep a backup is.
Author:  Kathleen1980 [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 5:57 am ]
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in that case simply say you are too busy too date, or not "ready".. something that she will not take personally. it will actually also increase attraction. this way bridges are not burnt.
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