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Author:  edo1234 [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 1:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Can't understand the way she behaves :S
Hi everyone,i really need your help with this girl that is really making me go crazy(she is a 8-8.5 HB by the way).
A brief summary of everything: she talks to a friend of mine saying that i'm really nice and cool,by the way she is in my class at university and she broke up few weeks ago,i start to text her for few days and to talk at uni and i can see different IOIs,last night i go to a disco with friends and she text me saying that she is there too and can't find me,then in some way she finds me, hugs me very strongly , and then we start dancing very close and she seemed very into it,but couldn't get a k-close because of her friend that was getting bored and was calling her like every minute and none of my friends where talking to her -.-,then she goes back to her table saying that even if didn't want to she felt bad for not going with her friends and left and didn't come back even is she said she would have and even if i texted her to come back (she didn't answer),the next day i phone her but after like 2 min she says she is busy working(this is true),and the same day i text her,in a cool way, and then i ask her to get a drink with me the next day before or after dinner but she doesn't answer back,and now are like two days i don't hear news from her.

I can't understand in which part i messed up my game and how i can try to fix things :(
Author:  MagicCaveman [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 2:35 pm ]
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IMO.... you were in there, she wanted you to be a man and just kiss her. You could have easily grabbed her hand and started to dance with her etc... she knows that you like her obs. But you didn't.

I reckon she went off with her friends, some other guy came onto her and she kissed him. Now she feels bad for you. Your a "nice guy". End of.

Sorry to be harsh mate. But if she's giving you IOI's and your showing that kinda weakness shes going to naturally look for a new mate.
Author:  MagicCaveman [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 3:00 pm ]
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Shark - He who waits, masturbates.
Author:  smokeit [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 3:40 pm ]
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Shark - He who waits, masturbates.
Haha

First off you should have at least kissed her. Socondly you hit her up wayy to much. You gotta let them chase you bro. Don't chase them. Look it's attraction not promotion.
Attraction.
Author:  lightbulb [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 4:04 pm ]
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yer you needed to get your caveman on , physical escalation, and lead , but its cool man we all make mistakes.
Author:  edo1234 [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 4:28 pm ]
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Yeah yeah i know i had to kiss her,i danced with her very closely i had,i have no excuses :(..............what can i do now to fix things ?? no she didn't kiss anyone i know that because i know her friends,actually one of them would really want to go out with me but she is not very attractive,anyway...........do you think i've lost her in the sense that it's too late that i've messed things up or not ???
Author:  lightbulb [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 4:59 pm ]
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I reckon you can still get her , but do something different this time , i reckon its because you wasnt leading , danceing close isnt leading , grabbing her hand and pulling her some place else in the club is. hope it goes well
Author:  edo1234 [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 5:18 pm ]
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ok i understand what u mean,but lets say i meet her three times a week all day at university....how should i behave to get her "back " ??
Author:  smokeit [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 5:33 pm ]
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ok i understand what u mean,but lets say i meet her three times a week all day at university....how should i behave to get her "back " ??
Get close to her face state deeply in her eyes and lips tilt your head just a tad bit and go in for the kill. You are a leader. Lead. Be alpha.
Author:  MagicCaveman [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 7:21 pm ]
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yer you needed to get your caveman on , physical escalation, and lead , but its cool man we all make mistakes.
He needed his inner caveman magic ;)
Author:  MagicCaveman [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 7:25 pm ]
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Edo.... If your not comfitable with just macking her face off (snogging her like an alpha caveman), then do this what i used to do..... and still do to test...

So your walking along or your talking to her.... when she says something good, or if you go up to her... give her a quick hug and give her a hard fast kiss on the cheek close to the lips wherever... then pull away fast and pull right back and carry on....

will take her back... or just kiss her on the lips quikc fast peck, then pull back. If she blushes then shes wet.

Havn't gone into too much detail but if you execute it well and in a confident way then you can escalate from there. Just go for it though mate, get close, kino her etc..
Author:  Costa-T [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 7:54 pm ]
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Simple typical answer give it time and back off, if she really liked then it'll still be in her so she'll try and speak to you soon. But for you now you need to go on NO CONTACT. The way you described how things happened at the dance then i can assure you she was ready for you to kiss her and you didn't and girls don't like guys that aren't confident. What happened at the dance might her gave her the impression that you only see her as a frined!!!! But i don't know, no one but that girl knows what's goin on with her. So i say leave, drop it and enjoy your life if she comes back then play it cool. If she doesn't then plenty of fish in the sea. I have been hurt really badly no t long ago and some people will tell you about it but now i am fine like there is no tomorrow. I started going out doing my thing and getting girls and it made me realise how much i actually want to go from one girl to another. No girl is worth your time, emotion and heart if you haven't been with them for at least 4 months.


Good luck
Author:  lightbulb [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 10:48 pm ]
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He needed his inner caveman magic


lolol
Author:  edo1234 [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 7:42 pm ]
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Hey guys today surprisibgly she sent a lot of iois ,she looked at me very often and actually this working she called me while i was with friends that i just arrived ...news is that this satuday i'll probably go with friends and her too to the disco.....instead i'm boeing a biit disinteressed and i talk to girls a lot.....actually a girl invited me to her place and while i was leaning to the wall talking to.her she passerà and looked at me very intensivly.... .Do u think i should continue to be like a bit of an asshole (in italian we say like this) or ......???
Author:  MagicCaveman [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 8:02 pm ]
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next time you see her, kiss her on the cheek. Then as soon as your out that night you go out with her... you see her, just kiss her on the lips. She wont be expecting it, just a quick 1 second peck, and she will get so wet from the confidence you show.

JUST MAN THE FUCK UP AND DO IT OR I AM GOING TO FUCK HER


enough said :)
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