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Author:  Snowflake [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 9:34 am ]
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sup guys. im new to this site. i wanted to ask for some advice on how to prevent geting emotionally attached to girls that i meet. this is starting to become a problem and if it isnt solved soon i am going to become even more afc :cry:

Author:  Confusius [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 11:19 am ]
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I had(or have) the same problem, i know it can hurt fuckin bad sometimes bro.
To avoid emotions, you should stop thinking about the girl when she isnt around, and don't ever imagine you having sex or being in a relationship with her!

It worked for me very often, but the 'dark side' of that is that I couldnt fall in love anymore because i didnt let my brain do the emotional work..

So, in the end, i just allowed my emotions, which brought me some good relationships, but also brought back the pain after the breakup. But i anyhow think that not the emotions are the problem we have to fix, but rather our ways of dealing with a breakup...

Author:  smokeit [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 4:06 pm ]
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Quote:
I had(or have) the same problem, i know it can hurt fuckin bad sometimes bro.
To avoid emotions, you should stop thinking about the girl when she isnt around, and don't ever imagine you having sex or being in a relationship with her!

It worked for me very often, but the 'dark side' of that is that I couldnt fall in love anymore because i didnt let my brain do the emotional work..

So, in the end, i just allowed my emotions, which brought me some good relationships, but also brought back the pain after the breakup. But i anyhow think that not the emotions are the problem we have to fix, but rather our ways of dealing with a breakup...
We are human bro. We all get attached sometimes. It sucks. But it's also awesome. You can't have the HIGH without the low, then how would you appreciate the HIGH?

Author:  Confusius [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 4:58 pm ]
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We are human bro. We all get attached sometimes. It sucks. But it's also awesome. You can't have the HIGH without the low, then how would you appreciate the HIGH?
thats just what im trying to say bro

Author:  Snowflake [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 9:23 pm ]
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Thanks guys :). I'll try my best to work on it and if it so happens that I get attached I will try not think about the girl. My AFC tendencies must come to an end

Author:  Donston [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 9:34 pm ]
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So what is the opposite of being needy to one girl? The opposite is to have an abundance of girls. Instead of interacting with one girl .... talk and interact/have sex, flirt with multiple girls.

Even if you think that you want to date this girl, your neediness can come out ... therefore talk and interact with many girls. The cool thing about this is when you compare your cherish girl with the other girls you interact with, you can even realize that she is so much cooler/better than the rest and still have the smell of an abundance male/pre selected dude ^_^.

Basically, more girls = pre selected guy and you will stop feeling emotionally attached to one girl.

Sincerely,

Donston

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