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| Author: | PUA-Paris [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 3:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is it just me or do girls in group turn all anti-social? |
They always block others from their group. It's hard to approach them, they're really unfriendly or is it me? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 3:41 am ] |
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sometimes it is tough to start a convo with a group of girls, if they start coding around and one doesn't like you, could mean the whole group doesn't like you, but you can fix this by just not caring so much, if one group doesn't like you, shrug it off and move on until you find a group that does, you can try plenty of things, winning the group over, or ignoring them, what ever you prefer, but you should get the girl you want to talk to alone cause girls get jealous and try to stop it from going down, just have to be more in it to win it, worst case they go into ignore mode and thats not a big deal if you have other people to talk to, also, if you just go around being social for the first bit, talk to girls then leave them alone, then come back later, they know you are not some needy guy who won't leave them alone and that could help you increase the number of girls that are actually willing to talk to you, break the ice first, leave, come back later and hit on them/escalate |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 4:30 am ] |
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Just be social with everyone else;those girls will open up to you later on in the night after they assess that you aren't looking for something. Works for me all the time at parties, I talk to all the people I know or at least the acquaintances and later game the girls that I haven't met before. Works like a charm. |
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| Author: | Hakuna [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 8:37 am ] |
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Yes, it's inevitable. It's an implicit shit test + they get a sadistic pleasure from shit testing you and watching you crumble. It's just another from of AA, something you need to kill through repetition and will. And to improve your odds in approaching groups, I find these things to help the most: 1. Pawning another girl 2. Adding time constraints 3. Approaching, leaving, approaching, etc; adds a vibe of familiarity and somewhat kills desperateness 4. Don't approach the target or mother hen first 5. Neg subtly and add takeaways |
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| Author: | LEF2226 [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 3:47 pm ] |
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Quote: Just be social with everyone else;those girls will open up to you later on in the night after they assess that you aren't looking for something. Works for me all the time at parties, I talk to all the people I know or at least the acquaintances and later game the girls that I haven't met before. Works like a charm.
[/quote]Just be social with everyone else;those girls will open up to you later on in the night after they assess that you aren't looking for something. Works for me all the time at parties, I talk to all the people I know or at least the acquaintances and later game the girls that I haven't met before. Works like a charm.Quote: pumpington and bxhangout22 give solid advice. Also, to reiterate, you should be non-outcome dependent. That is, don't worry about not getting a certain girls number or if a certain group/girl doesn't like you. Just be the man and be social and things will fall into place. |
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