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Author:  Ozai [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 11:16 pm ]
Post subject:  The girl I love.

This girl. She makes me crazy.

I know her through school, im 17 yrs old. She came with me to play tennis and we had a lot of fun. But i didnt use any of the techniques this site, and the book "the game" has taught me. Im too kind to nag someone. She is into rough guys, of that im sure. Im the average guy who gets no girls because he is too kind. Thats my handicap. How should i move on from here?

I always talk to her on facebook and she is always nice, but she never starts talking to me.

Greetz, Maarten
Thx so much in advance.

Author:  EddieFews [ Sat Mar 17, 2012 1:17 am ]
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Have you ever seen the movie " I love you Beth Cooper?"

Author:  smokeit [ Sat Mar 17, 2012 1:37 am ]
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Hit up other birds

Author:  knightduller [ Sat Mar 17, 2012 6:09 pm ]
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i agree with the guy above me, just find another chick and dont hide abt it

Author:  FMJ [ Sat Mar 17, 2012 7:04 pm ]
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this is a good opportunity, gotta take advantage of it man! try some moves and start being sarcastic/jokish instead of so nice. make her laugh and then be flirty and shit

Author:  Snarg [ Sat Mar 17, 2012 9:26 pm ]
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...why would he find a new girl when nothing bad has happened with the current one? Sometimes the advice people give is so recycled it's just amazing to me.

Maarten, you're doing fine and I don't see what the problem is. You got her to hang out with you so that's a victory in itself. True, being too nice will ultimately fuck you over, but it's never too late to toughen up a bit. That doesn't mean you have to start being an asshole, though. Just tease her more and joke around with her. There's this huge misconception out there that girls like assholes, and that's simply not the case. They like a guy who is confident enough in himself to where he can say what he wants, joke around when he wants, and ensure everyone goes home happy. Surely you can do that.

Author:  smokeit [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 4:13 pm ]
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He said he is the one always initiating. You should hit up other girls to get you off the the mindset of only talking to this one girl. I did not say for him to stop trying to get with her, just to not focus on her alone.

Author:  Donston [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 10:25 pm ]
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Talk to others girls so you wouldn't be a needy guy ... needy guy who is seeking an out come from her. When you talk/interact with other girls, you develop an abundance mind frame were you don't care if you lose your cherish girl because you have other girls to interact with. Which ironically, will help you get your cherish. Outcome dependent = chode needy guy .... Abundance mind frame = pimp ^_^.

When you do hang out establish a man to woman interaction compared to a friend to friend interaction. To establish a man to woman interaction ... the easiest way is to make out with her ^_^ ... You can also be more touchy, develop inside jokes, give her nicknames ... show your intentions.

You can do the Tim's Flawless Natural way of developing a Bubble of love interaction. Basically, you develop a bubble around you guys by role playing that you guys are:

1) Boy friend and girl friend.
2) Getting married.
3) Her being your play mate.
4) Her being your girl friend in the next 10 minutes.
5) "Oh I use date a girl name [insert cherish name here] .... she was trouble"

This will help you steer/direct the interaction to a guy expressing his intentions to a girl because you will be doing/talking about things that relate to interactions of the list above.

Example: With 100% belief and in a fun tonality say: "Alright I've decide that we are boyfriend and girl friend now [grab her hand] ... what do boy friend and girl friends do? Let's go on a date at that bench/ go on a first date by going for a walk/ ... etc etc etc ..."

Example2: "Alright I"ve decide that you and I are married now" ... now you can divorce each other, make up again ... kiss her ... etc etc etc ...

It's pretty fun to these role plays for the both of you guys and you won't run out of things to say since you just talk about things that relate to the list above.

Sincerely,

Donston

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