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| Author: | styleten [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 1:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | lost confidence, girls and fight related |
I'm a weak me. Its starting to effect my confidence. Having hernia means i haven't been training in striking or grappling for 6 months. I just started with weights but its all light weights. Most of my exercise has been swimming for the last month. Its tightened my core so i feel better. I look in the mirror and i see round shoulders and i see a tighter stomach so I'm making progress. Approaching. I feel that you should be approaching women when you are capable of handling the fall out. When you aren't afraid of the fall out. Fall out could be, her boyfriend gets hot headed and in your face when you didn't even know the guy was alive. Suddenly hes in your face with. Thats mine. Typically i don't care about relationships. If a girl is game. I wanna be game. Not scared away by a neglecting boyfriend. Simply put. She may be better for me then she is for him. Being I'm not in striking school or grappling school I'm stuck with this weakness. If you aren't practicing your fight skills they begin to decline. Significantly after 2-3 months. I'm at 6. Really way longer cause i only returned for 2 one month sessions in 2011. So I'm really about 15 months out. Worthless!!! Now my physical body has hernia. So I'm weak too. When I'm not fighting I'm typically taking a break to reup on strength. So i lift. HARD. and condition on stairs sprinting. So I'm not strong enough to win, I'm not skilled enough to win but worse off. If i get into a physical conflict i could tear my ab and need immediate surgery. The effect. I let opportunities pass. I see guys randomly posturing toward me and I'm reading what they are doing but i can't go meet it to show, I'm here too. Its just effecting me now all around. I have about 3 real current threats. All physical. One dude wants it BAD. We fought several times. In comp and out of comp. He has won. I have won. He is one of those guys who only wants to fight when he feels he is going to win. Otherwise he is using friends to intimidate and over power a persons will. What i call a pussy. The other two are iffy. One did stalk me out while living 40 miles away so i know he is looking for something too. But that beef stems from online. He has a henchman that isn't really looking for a war. But if he gets a chance at a feel good ego moment beating someone weak, he'll take it. The other may want a war. Since his crew doesn't like me. He has more confidence. Since I'm smaller and hurt and weak. He seems to want to display his dominance. He also wants to hide though. He knows my name, first, last, address, my training gyms, my work out gyms and he has stalked them out to learn about me, look at me etc. While he hides his Real name, where abouts etc. He has an element of respect for what could turn into retaliation. I did learn after he and i beefed that he began training with a fight trainer again. So what ever it is between he and i, he isn't just resting on size and strength he is now working fight skills. He is becoming as dangerous as possible while I'm forced to baby myself on the bench. Approaching. How am i supposed to be approaching escalating and closing when i know that i have real threats and people will become threats as i pursue women. |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 3:10 pm ] |
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Whoa there. I think you are blowing this way out of proportion. These issues have nothing to do with approaching women. I have never been in a physical fight. Ever. That's because there's never been a need. Meeting women is a game of diplomacy - the physical fighting is what your ancestors did when they were still drawing images of pornography on the walls of their caves using chalk made from dried buffalo shit. Yes, you may be challenged to a fight if you try to steal a girl from her man. But that's all on you - it's your fault. Even so, it doesn't mean you have to fight him. There are so many tactics posted on these forums on how to handle a boyfriend or other male competition, and luckily, none of these have anything to do with fighting. |
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| Author: | styleten [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 4:17 pm ] |
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ok thanks man i'll do a search. I think i left out that all the violence, my being weak has caused and effect on my confidence with women |
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