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| Author: | Suriyel [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 1:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | So there's this afc at school...... |
Hardcore afc he's kind of big and not too good looking, sometimes people rip on him which I feel isn't cool because I know this kid probably doesn't have a high self esteem. He's really nice almost too nice where I feel like people take advantage of him and he tries to hard to please. I've been trying to give him tips/advice in a subtle way for example; the other day there was this HB9.5 walking by and he suggested to me that I should tell the group that we all take a bow while she was walking by as a joke. I told him no this HB nor any other should not be put on a pedestal nor should she be rewarded only on her looks and that that wasn't a joke. Sometimes it's painful to see him socialize especially with girls. Sometimes I feel like sitting him down and being direct and telling him a few pointers but I feel like he may take offense if I say some of the stuff I've written on here about him. What would you guys suggest? Also I think I would feel like an arrogant prick(which I actually feel like right now for writing this) if I sat him down to try to give him advice. |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 1:47 am ] |
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Do not feel like an arrogant prick for wanting to help him. You are trying to save him from being so socially unacceptable. It sounds like you're in high school which is a vicious time for a lot of people, and knowing that he has a friend like you could really help him get through it more easily. Sit him down and explain yourself and I'm sure he'd be happy for your help. Good for you! |
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| Author: | Suriyel [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 3:42 am ] |
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Actually I'm a third year student at a university. . . lulz There's some stupid freshmen trying to AMOG it up by jokingly insulting people. What he doesn't really understand is people get annoyed with the constant name calling. He usually tries to break my frame but fails at it because I don't react or say a few sharp words and he calms down (this is happening way to much it's getting tiring) so since I don't react and some other dudes are starting to not react too he goes for the 'weaker' ones IE this second year student (the afc) and a few others afcs. I'm pretty sure though this kid is only trying to AMOG it up because he feels insecure about himself (mainly his height) also according to him he's fucked 95% of the female student body. My other theory about this kid and why he's always tries to break my frame almost every time I see him is because we both skateboard and not to toot my own horn but good at it, and I'm better than this amog kid (he knows it too but can never admit to it) so he feels threaten but that's neither here nor there. I think you may be right I should just sit down and have a chat with him, be direct in the nicest way possible probably. I mean I could just tell this kid to back the fuck off but I also want this afc to learn to defend himself and boost his confidence so he can be a little less socially awkward so he can get chicks...sorry for wall of text |
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