If this is related to your fuck close, try this technique first before you do the freeze out.
- 1. Kiss, kiss, touch here and there.
2. Now, pin her left and right forearms on the bed with your hands. Not too strong or too hard but just enough to see if she resists or tries to get out of the pin.
3. If her pants or underwear are still on (don't remove them), let your tongue linger just above her crotch for about one minute while still pinning both of her arms down the bed.
4. Finally, tell her to remove her pants and her panties. Don't help her. Let her do it herself. Don't beg. Don't plead. Just say it. It's something like this: "Take off your pants/panties."
