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| Author: | arthurw87 [ Wed Mar 14, 2012 5:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to avoid desentization? |
Hi everyone, I think I'm suffering from mild desentization? After 2 years of working in the nightlife, every set of women that walk into the club feels like a resource or commodity instead of being sexually interesting to me. Any way I can spice things back up and get myself amped again? I'm certain I'm not gay. Some of my friends suggest I take a break from DJing and experience the club environment as a clubber instead of a hired gun. I'm not sure if this will help and I am reluctant to take a break as well because of work obligations. I'll be thankful for any advice.. |
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| Author: | KingOtto [ Wed Mar 14, 2012 10:52 am ] |
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Maybe you see women as "customers" or as "funs" or whatever. If you get to know a couple of them maybe you will get intreeged by the female mind  I find it more sexual when I get to know a woman and have sex with her, rather than just a one night stand. So i guess this is kind of close as well. Talk to a nice girl that you find interesting and maybe you will get your "I want women" feeling back again.cheers |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Wed Mar 14, 2012 11:13 am ] |
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Therapy. |
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| Author: | Ardan [ Wed Mar 14, 2012 12:35 pm ] |
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I was a Bouncer for 10yrs+, and this gave me a very cynical outlook on women, (people as a whole too). I occasionally go out to clubs to visit friends, and the venue makes the girls unattractive to me, regardless of their looks or personality. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Wed Mar 14, 2012 2:05 pm ] |
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get to know them. Some girls might surprise you with their personalities. It's actually better to see them this way and not put them on a pedestal. Maybe you can use this to your advantage and try to get to know them, since not many men can look past their looks. |
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| Author: | arthurw87 [ Thu Mar 15, 2012 4:29 am ] |
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thx for all the constructive replies Yeah.. I guess I'll definitely have to think of people in a different light. Gonna try a different approach this weekend instead of the usual hit and run. Probably would build better inner game and passion. |
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