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Author:  Snarg [ Tue Mar 13, 2012 3:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Playing the game for a relationship.
I'm typing this from my phone in a hotel so I apologize for any typos in advance.

I am on spring break in NYC on a sort of double date with this girl in my social circle who has been flirting with me over the last several weeks, along with a male friend and his girlfriend. This girl is really into me, and has admitted that much to me. She knows I feel the same way based purely off my actions. I want a relationship with her right now but she keeps saying she doesn't want to get into one with me since we go to school and work together. She said we have great chemistry and if we didn't go to school and work together she could see herself with me. I played it cool and said that it was no big deal, I am moving on, etc.

She didn't like that reaction at all. She almost seemed pissed that I didn't beg her to be with me. We have gotten drunk and made out several times this weekend already, but only kissed once sober and she was hesitant. She also told my friend that I am too touchy feely even though I literally touched her maybe twice yesterday. I dont get it.

I know I have to play head games at this point and maybe freeze her out, but how exactly? I will still be in NYC with her all of today and maybe tomorrow. Any suggestions? Should I pretend I am unaffected by this and be my normal fun self, or pay less attention to her? Should I make out with her when we inevitably get drunk, or resist her advances? Should i keep up the kino even though she says i am "all ovet her"? And finally, do you have any insight on this issue as a whole?
Author:  Ezo [ Tue Mar 13, 2012 5:58 pm ]
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I was thinking, you dont really need to do a full freezeout. Maybe you could start out by being a bit reluctant to take it further and gradually let her "win you over". That is what she wants really.

Especially if she has invested in it. I mean, never let her be completely in control but keep some "lag phase", as she seduces you, you go for it to about 90% which makes her feel like, darn, this is hard but going in the right direction. Once she has invested in it, she wont wanna stop unless she realizes that she has won.

Just one question, was it your friends GF?
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Mar 13, 2012 6:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Playing the game for a relationship.
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I'm typing this from my phone in a hotel so I apologize for any typos in advance.

I am on spring break in NYC on a sort of double date with this girl in my social circle who has been flirting with me over the last several weeks, along with a male friend and his girlfriend. This girl is really into me, and has admitted that much to me. She knows I feel the same way based purely off my actions. I want a relationship with her right now but she keeps saying she doesn't want to get into one with me since we go to school and work together. She said we have great chemistry and if we didn't go to school and work together she could see herself with me. I played it cool and said that it was no big deal, I am moving on, etc.

She didn't like that reaction at all. She almost seemed pissed that I didn't beg her to be with me. We have gotten drunk and made out several times this weekend already, but only kissed once sober and she was hesitant. She also told my friend that I am too touchy feely even though I literally touched her maybe twice yesterday. I dont get it.

I know I have to play head games at this point and maybe freeze her out, but how exactly? I will still be in NYC with her all of today and maybe tomorrow. Any suggestions? Should I pretend I am unaffected by this and be my normal fun self, or pay less attention to her? Should I make out with her when we inevitably get drunk, or resist her advances? Should i keep up the kino even though she says i am "all ovet her"? And finally, do you have any insight on this issue as a whole?
Stop asking girls out before you sleep with them bro lol

I'm live in NYC dude, if you want to forget this whole thing, PM me your number.. I'll show you a good time out here
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Tue Mar 13, 2012 7:08 pm ]
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With typical hot babes, the end game is getting the guy to say "I love you" or getting him to demonstrate this love through a token of his affection like a diamond ring, a house, or a marriage proposal.

For guys on the other hand, the end game is usually about getting laid. As Ezo says, make her chase you until the very end if your goal is to keep her. Give in little by little and make her work hard for it. And don't ever give her that end game trophy that all women want. Don't be an easy kill.

I'm pretty sure you already know your PUA routines by heart. This is why I'm just expounding on Ezo's insight.

One more thing. In case you bang her, make her realize that she isn't going to get the same kind of quality bang anywhere EXCEPT from you. Very few women get to orgasm and most men can't even tell a fake one from a real one.

Just remember: for girls, the bang is not the end game. :twisted:
Author:  Ezo [ Wed Mar 14, 2012 11:28 am ]
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Quote:
With typical hot babes, the end game is getting the guy to say "I love you" or getting him to demonstrate this love through a token of his affection like a diamond ring, a house, or a marriage proposal.

For guys on the other hand, the end game is usually about getting laid. As Ezo says, make her chase you until the very end if your goal is to keep her. Give in little by little and make her work hard for it. And don't ever give her that end game trophy that all women want. Don't be an easy kill.

I'm pretty sure you already know your PUA routines by heart. This is why I'm just expounding on Ezo's insight.

One more thing. In case you bang her, make her realize that she isn't going to get the same kind of quality bang anywhere EXCEPT from you. Very few women get to orgasm and most men can't even tell a fake one from a real one.

Just remember: for girls, the bang is not the end game. :twisted:
Just to clarify, I meant that this can be done in one night. As long as you give her the feeling of winning you over!
Author:  Snarg [ Thu Mar 15, 2012 8:59 pm ]
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Sorry it took so long to post back again, I just got home.

Ezo - thanks for the advice. I took that exact approach and it worked wonders. She was completely into me for the remaining days of our vacation and I think things are looking pretty solid now. And nope, it wasn't my friend's GF, she's completely single.

Hellhound - She got what she wanted eventually in more ways than one, haha. Thanks for the advice.

Fuze - Sorry I didn't get in touch with you before I left. I didn't get a chance to get on here again until now. I'll hit you up next time I go. NYC is fucking awesome and I plan to go back as soon as possible.
Author:  Ezo [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 9:44 am ]
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Quote:
Sorry it took so long to post back again, I just got home.

Ezo - thanks for the advice. I took that exact approach and it worked wonders. She was completely into me for the remaining days of our vacation and I think things are looking pretty solid now. And nope, it wasn't my friend's GF, she's completely single.

Hellhound - She got what she wanted eventually in more ways than one, haha. Thanks for the advice.

Fuze - Sorry I didn't get in touch with you before I left. I didn't get a chance to get on here again until now. I'll hit you up next time I go. NYC is fucking awesome and I plan to go back as soon as possible.
Happy to hear that it worked! :)
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 4:12 pm ]
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Snarg my brother. One great news certainly makes up for the +20 bad news that I read about here. Booyah! :twisted:
Author:  smokeit [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 9:48 pm ]
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Well done
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