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| Author: | mademan1 [ Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:52 am ] |
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so i started talking to this girl again last week. we have been friends for awhile now and we havent seen each other since we walked together last may. she asked me to hang out last week but i was busy. so we have plans to hang out this week. the problem is she has a boyfriend. how do i seduce her? |
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| Author: | ElliottGordon [ Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:58 am ] |
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I think the odds are against you here. She has a boyfriend, and you are in the friend zone. you could flirt with her, but I wouldn't count on anything. Other PUA's will tell you that you can seduce her on this forum, and you probably could if you are skilled enough. But it sounds like you would benefit most In the long run from going out and gaming more women, learning and becoming more proficient at pickup, rather than focusing on trying to seduce a friend. |
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| Author: | mademan1 [ Mon Mar 12, 2012 2:03 am ] |
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when we use to hang out we always flirted. im not sure what else i could do |
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| Author: | ElliottGordon [ Mon Mar 12, 2012 2:09 am ] |
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Did the flirting ever leads you hooking up? this needs to be your goal. use humor as a way of escalating. If you simply escalate, she may think you are aggressive. But if you use humor, and do it in a fun, playful way, it'll be harder for her to resist. Are you okay with the friendship ending if this doesn't work out? because there is a slight chance that this will ruin the friendship. If you are too nervous, and lovey-dovey, and not confident, then not only will you destroy your chances of being with her, but you also destroy the friendship. You're going to be most successful if you are completely indifferent about your friendship with her, and “don't care.” |
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| Author: | mademan1 [ Mon Mar 12, 2012 2:11 am ] |
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it never really led to anything and im fine if our friendship end because of it |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Mon Mar 12, 2012 2:55 am ] |
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This is not a question a simple post is going to fix... Your not experienced with women if you asking the question so its going to take a lil more than a little advice to fix this.. I do one on one personal coaching where I help guys get through things like this. My information is in my signature. check it out |
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