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Author:  puanub [ Sun Mar 11, 2012 6:15 am ]
Post subject:  Ignored her to build interest! Did I do it wrong?

There's this girl that i've been gaming she's giving me lots of IOI before, last week we see each other unexpectedly on a bus stop, I wrapped my hands around her shoulder and I said. How long have you been here? She gave me a short answer. She's not with her best friend this time I could tell that she's nervous haha! she has no back-up :lol: I was teasing her, but she only says a few words, I got bored so I let her hop on the bus first I said take care I think she nodded dunno, i forgot. I felt that she showed me an IOD during that interaction so my gameplan is to ignore her next time I would see her. Yesterday! luckily I saw her again at the cafeteria sitting with her best friend, I was with my friends, we had eye contact she and her friend smiled and I heard her saying to her friend "wow! he's got a new haircut". but I ignored her, Me and my friends sat on a table where she would not see us! but then I noticed she and her friend changed location to where I could see her! she must be expecting that I would approach her! but I ignored her again. Going home on the bus stop! I did not expect to see her there again, she was with her best friend, while walking I saw her we had an eye contact but I look away and ignored her again. I said to my friend, hehe part of the gameplan LOL. Then I hopped on the bus. When I got home! I realized wtf! did I do the wrong thing?

Did I?

Author:  Warped Mindless [ Sun Mar 11, 2012 6:33 am ]
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Ignoring a woman you like is a silly thing to do. She gave you multiple approach invites, all of which you ignored. She not either thinks your a pussy or uninterested. You may have missed the window of opportunity. If she continues to give you a warm vibe then stop ignoring her.

When a woman shows genuine interest in you, and gives you an approach invite, jump on it. Go talk to her and move things forward.

Author:  Hakuna [ Sun Mar 11, 2012 7:06 am ]
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It sounds like she's not interested and you're over analyzing everything.

Author:  EddieFews [ Sun Mar 11, 2012 12:40 pm ]
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Ignoring a woman you like is a silly thing to do. She gave you multiple approach invites, all of which you ignored. She not either thinks your a pussy or uninterested. You may have missed the window of opportunity. If she continues to give you a warm vibe then stop ignoring her.

When a woman shows genuine interest in you, and gives you an approach invite, jump on it. Go talk to her and move things forward.

Theres no reason to ever ignore a girl that isn't emotional invested in you yet, your shooting yourself in the foot. You haven't slept, with her, kissed her, or went on with her alone. Why could she possibly care if you are ignoring her?

Author:  Snarg [ Sun Mar 11, 2012 10:05 pm ]
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I didn't see a single IOI in your description, aside from maybe eye contact...but that's not a very reliable IOI at all. Are you sure you're reading her body language properly?

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