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Author:  Psydaddy [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 11:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Friendzone alert
I meat a girl a few days ago and i was talking with her few mins ago and i find out that she's on a difficult love situation.
She's really bad about it, because she really like a dude but the dude doesn't care.

But my problem is not that, my question is:
I started to help her out with that situation but i'm afraid of get straight to the friendzone, so what to do?
Avoid to talk about the other guy? what?

I really need help on this :S
Author:  Seville [ Sun Mar 11, 2012 12:14 am ]
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Be a man about it is my opinion. If she brings him up just tell her "Look babe, although I appreciate the fact that you are open about your problems with me, I find it rude that you always talk about him around me. When you are talking to me the conversation should be fun. So please cut it out. Agreed? Yes.". If she gets mad then you are already in the friend zone, sorry. But if she has any respect for you then she will see that you are better then that guy. But it's that kind of stuff that has worked for me.
Author:  KimPa [ Sun Mar 11, 2012 12:26 am ]
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To get out of the friend zone it is essential that you touch her.. Hug, hold hands, kiss .. any of that would do ! Tried it before and it worked!
Author:  Psydaddy [ Sun Mar 11, 2012 12:28 am ]
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Quote:
Be a man about it is my opinion. If she brings him up just tell her "Look babe, although I appreciate the fact that you are open about your problems with me, I find it rude that you always talk about him around me. When you are talking to me the conversation should be fun. So please cut it out. Agreed? Yes.". If she gets mad then you are already in the friend zone, sorry. But if she has any respect for you then she will see that you are better then that guy. But it's that kind of stuff that has worked for me.
It's a great tip but i just know her for about 2 days, it's kind of offensive don't you think :?
But it's an awesome sentence i may say. I think i can get a good quote from there.

But tell me do you have any advices to avoid friendzone?
For now the only way i have to talk with her is texting, and i'm kinda worry about to ask her out knowing this from her.

Thanks : )
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To get out of the friend zone it is essential that you touch her.. Hug, hold hands, kiss .. any of that would do ! Tried it before and it worked!
Thanks pal, i really have to practice that more often : )
Author:  Seville [ Sun Mar 11, 2012 12:40 am ]
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I guess it's all in how you look at it. If it isn't comfortable for you to say then definitely don't say it. But my point is more in the zone of not letting the girls control where things go and controlling and steering the direction of your interactions.
Author:  stugots [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 4:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Friendzone alert
Quote:
I meat a girl a few days ago and i was talking with her few mins ago and i find out that she's on a difficult love situation.
She's really bad about it, because she really like a dude but the dude doesn't care.

But my problem is not that, my question is:
I started to help her out with that situation but i'm afraid of get straight to the friendzone, so what to do?
Avoid to talk about the other guy? what?

I really need help on this :S
Do not speak to her about this guy..at all! Someone before gave you great advice, tell her up front you don't want to talk about it, you're not her gf or her gay guy friend.

I have a "friend" I've developed some feelings for. It's a little more complicated because we don't live near each other. But basically, I treat her has a gf and I told her off that bat I'm not interested in being "friends." - which kind of back fired a little bit for me, I said this again and she got a little upset, but it's all in how she responds next which was sending me pics of her and her nephew.

Last time she was in town, I did meet her for a drink, and did with the other poster said, I toucher her, I touched her A LOT!, she was receptive and recipricated. We're noth recently divorced and she asked if I had been dating, I said, "yeah, a lot" which is true. Her only romantic interlude she has is an old college friend who lives on a different coast (obviously a rebound).

She also refused to see a picture of my ex-wife (she asked what she looked like) and gets irked if any of my ex-lovers/gfs come up, this is good, it's what you want.

Considering she has a bf, I think you need to avoid her a little...do not be her doormat to cry to when this guy does bad crap to her... its the only reason why I think I will have a shot with my "friend" at some point...and find other girls, it will be a lot easier to stop thinking about her when you have other things going on, and in this case...make her KNOW you're dating someone...better yet, make her see it and what a great guy you are to her..
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