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Author:  mapleleaf [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 4:28 am ]
Post subject:  How to display high values being only a college student?
How do I display high values to a girl if I am still a college student? I don't have PHDs or work and get a high salary.

Also, how do I display dominance, with body language and my talks?
Author:  AFC AzA [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 5:01 am ]
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be who you are
be proud
dont try DHV.
Author:  Sonicvega [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 5:26 am ]
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What most guys dont understand sometimes is that women are sold on the possibilities. Tell her your goals and aspirations to build value . Tell her why you are passionate about them . Most girls are more impressed with the guy with passion to be a Dr than the Dr himself. Dominance can be displayed in many ways . Even if you say something like I know you may be used to dating guys that are always late to movies but me I dont like to miss the previews. (Keep in mind the devil is in the details. ) I have take lots of classes in physical dominance from a hand shake to the way you stand to where you sit at a restaurant.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 5:50 am ]
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Worry less about value and more about the emotions your making her feel.
Author:  _Lothario_ [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 7:04 am ]
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DHV should be natural. DHV when she asks you things. If you're not in a good spot its your goals that will make you a higher value. It's not where you've been, but where you're about to go.

Let her talk about herself, it till display your interest in her when you ask questions and her answers will be her reciprocation. Keep her talking about herself in a manor that makes her have to prove herself to you, by checking her with your standards for who you want. The more she does this the more she'll want to prove herself to you, and she'll become more and more attracted to you.

Once she qualifies for you, tell her. If you're in a party situation and she tries to turn the tables on you, tell her VERY briefly a very basic view on you, so she'll want to know more, and tell her you don't want to take too much time from the party, and go dance with her, or get her number and arrange a vague day2.

Ultimately, if you can, physically escalate with her at first and take her to your place or hers. WIN!
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 12:43 pm ]
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Fix your grooming. Foster et al. ‘Alpha Male Chimpanzee Grooming Patterns: Implications for Dominance “Style”’, American Journal of Primatology, 71, 2, 136-144, 2009.

Wear red shirts. Elliot, A.J. et al., (2010), 'Red, Rank, and Romance in Women Viewing Men," Journal of Experimental Psychology, Vol. 139, No. 3, 399–417. I think the reason for this is rooted in evolutionary theory. Think of ancient times when men have to hunt wild boars and bring home the kill as blood drips down their bodies so the women will have something to cook. Or maybe, think of the warrior who gets home all bloodied after a great battle.

Being dominant or alpha is NOT an emotional state. You ARRIVE at that emotional state when you're on top in a certain aspect of your life. When you're on top, you get the benefits of being alpha which translate into higher adrenaline and hence higher energy, higher levels of testosterone and hence higher sexual attractiveness to women, and of course, greater confidence.

Are you a badass at chess? Leverage on that. Show (not tell) your dominance. Telling kills attraction.

You can also use evolution to your GREAT advantage. :twisted:
Author:  mapleleaf [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 4:55 pm ]
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Fix your grooming. Foster et al. ‘Alpha Male Chimpanzee Grooming Patterns: Implications for Dominance “Style”’, American Journal of Primatology, 71, 2, 136-144, 2009.

Wear red shirts. Elliot, A.J. et al., (2010), 'Red, Rank, and Romance in Women Viewing Men," Journal of Experimental Psychology, Vol. 139, No. 3, 399–417. I think the reason for this is rooted in evolutionary theory. Think of ancient times when men have to hunt wild boars and bring home the kill as blood drips down their bodies so the women will have something to cook. Or maybe, think of the warrior who gets home all bloodied after a great battle.

Being dominant or alpha is NOT an emotional state. You ARRIVE at that emotional state when you're on top in a certain aspect of your life. When you're on top, you get the benefits of being alpha which translate into higher adrenaline and hence higher energy, higher levels of testosterone and hence higher sexual attractiveness to women, and of course, greater confidence.

Are you a badass at chess? Leverage on that. Show (not tell) your dominance. Telling kills attraction.

You can also use evolution to your GREAT advantage. :twisted:
You have some ideas about being good chess. I like reading about philosophy and my hobby is to figure people out like sherlock holmes. How do I use that to my best advantage? How do I show her that and not tell?
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 5:43 pm ]
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You have some ideas about being good chess. I like reading about philosophy and my hobby is to figure people out like sherlock holmes. How do I use that to my best advantage? How do I show her that and not tell?
Enroll in a philosophy class and go into an intense debate with the professor. Make sure that you top all of the philosophy exams. Focus on the philosophy class. You'll notice that girls will come near you.

It's very subtle so you need to study body language to read the signals properly. Study the newbie PUA materials here and master them. When girls go near you, sarge them. Turn them into your friends while doing lots of sexual innuendo and kino-escalation routines. These lady friends of yours will give you massive social proof.

If you're creative enough, you can get these new lady friends of yours near or around your target HB. When that happens, you can go to a PUA approach and opener routine with your target HB.

Sarging other girls before sarging your target is VERY important. This will give you a lot of practice and confidence. When you develop enough skill, confidence and social proof, you can now SHOW value or your dominance.

Figuring out people is no different from cold reading. Learn the cold read materials here and learn them well. :twisted:
Author:  seph89 [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 5:58 pm ]
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Value is multifaceted.

Mystery talks about the 5 attraction switches or demonstrations of higher value. They are:

1. Pre-selection
2. Leader of men
3. Protector of loved ones
4. Healthy emotions
5. Successful risk-taker

Pre-selection: Other girls like you and want you. Surround yourself with lots of women, beautiful women if possible, on your campus. Sit with other girls in class, laugh have fun and be comfortable with yourself.

Leader of men: Pretty straightforward. Have lots of guy friends and be the leader/organizer. Throw lots of parties if you live off campus. Be the guy that every other guy wants to be. BE THE LEADER.

Protector of loved ones: Show that those who are around you will always be safe. Take care of them, protect them. If it's your close buddies at a party always have their back and make that known to others. If it's your girl friends, look after them and tell them you'll make sure creepers stay away from them...shit like that.

Healthy emotions: Be confident, non-reactive to things, playful and comfortable with yourself. You shouldn't let shit bother you ever. As my mentor, Arash Dibazar, says "So be it." That is the mindset you need to have when faced with any situation, good or bad. Don't crumbled under challenge and controversy. Show that you are STRONG.

Successful risk-taker: LIVE ON THE EDGE! Life is too short to be cautious and wary of every step you take. Sure you want to be smart but don't be afraid to go big and have fun! Make this known to women.

There you have it in a nutshell. In the end it comes to your frame and INNER GAME, like it says in my signature. If you are OKAY WITH YOU, and are truly fearless...you will get everything you want out of life. It's pure and simple.

Best Regards,
SEP
Author:  silverito [ Sun Mar 11, 2012 10:28 pm ]
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EVERY phd guy and every high salary guy who has college education once was "just" a student. There is not such thing as "just a student", this is when your life journey befgins. All you have to do is tell her that you have your life goals set up high (like getting that phd, or getting that good job etc)
Author:  OliverKing [ Mon Mar 12, 2012 12:25 am ]
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Hey yansaccnt,

I am a huge believer of self-development and I want to say that there is no answer on you question. Let me explain you why i am saying it.

First of all, you have completely wrong assumptions in your head, if you are asking questions such as "how to display value" or "dominance". Women can feel everything. If you will try to fake it, they will feel it no meter what.

Second, you are trying to look at things in a materialistic way -"I don't have PHDs or work and get a high salary." You should represent value within yourself and create this feeling of dominance, then you will succeed with women. Routines or tactics will not help you either, because from the point i provided above, you are simply faking it.

Finally, the only way to generate dominance and value is to grow as person. When you work on yourself more, you will create your own world.

Here is a link of the post with a break down of how to create your own reality.
everything-you-need-to-know-about-your- ... 30857.html

Cheers,
OliverKing.
Author:  mapleleaf [ Mon Mar 12, 2012 6:49 am ]
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Hey yansaccnt,

I am a huge believer of self-development and I want to say that there is no answer on you question. Let me explain you why i am saying it.

First of all, you have completely wrong assumptions in your head, if you are asking questions such as "how to display value" or "dominance". Women can feel everything. If you will try to fake it, they will feel it no meter what.

Second, you are trying to look at things in a materialistic way -"I don't have PHDs or work and get a high salary." You should represent value within yourself and create this feeling of dominance, then you will succeed with women. Routines or tactics will not help you either, because from the point i provided above, you are simply faking it.

Finally, the only way to generate dominance and value is to grow as person. When you work on yourself more, you will create your own world.

Here is a link of the post with a break down of how to create your own reality.
everything-you-need-to-know-about-your- ... 30857.html

Cheers,
OliverKing.
Def. one of the best piece of advice I've gotten so far. Thanks.
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