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Author:  thesmiff [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 3:10 pm ]
Post subject:  winning back an ex
I split with my ex about 8 months ago,we split because she wasnt a very affectionate person,sometimes she would be,but not that often,we get on really well,best connection i have had with a woman.when we split,she told me that she was having some hormone problems,and she had been to the doctor,and he had given her some medication,she said its the reason why she wasnt very affectionate.we stayed friends and i used to see quite a bit of her up until new years eve last year,i hadnt spoken to her for around 7 weeks,up until around 3 weeks ago,i see her most fridays,and she comes round to mine some sundays we get a film,eat pizza.we still get on well,laugh,joke,and i still feel that she flirts,touches me when she speaks to me,she said she has had interest from a couple of guys,but has put them off,she said to me she isnt interested in anyone.she knows i am still interested in her.What advice can u give me?in my eyes she is worth it,but i dont want to fall all over her,i dont contact her much,or go round very often,she said she doesnt mind me going round.I try not to be to obvious that i am still attracted to her.I do go out still and chat to other women,i have dated one until recently,but she was a nutter lol.
What do you all think??

all replies welcome
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 3:24 pm ]
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This is a highly debatable question. I can't be like one of those people and tell you that exes are simply not worth it anymore. However, I can at least be practical with you: It's not worth getting affection from a freak. I call these girls freaks because they either have physical issues or mental issues. "Don’t be one of these men that become obsessed with a woman just because she doesn’t like them. It just becomes two people who don’t love themselves trying to get love from the other person." quoted by 60yoc.

Instead, find a girl that likes you back if a healthy relationship is what you want.
Author:  thesmiff [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 3:34 pm ]
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I wouldnt say she doesnt like me back,when we got together in the beginning it was her that made all the moves,it was her that was obvious,i was the one holding back,i dont chase her around,i have no problem being friends with her,i dont push her on the subject,she said to me a week ago that the problem she has could go on a while longer yet,i just said,these things take time.she is a very nice person,she always seems happy to see me,she also says she isnt looking,i just smile when she says that.
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 3:47 pm ]
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I wouldnt say she doesnt like me back,when we got together in the beginning it was her that made all the moves,it was her that was obvious,i was the one holding back,i dont chase her around,i have no problem being friends with her,i dont push her on the subject,she said to me a week ago that the problem she has could go on a while longer yet,i just said,these things take time.she is a very nice person,she always seems happy to see me,she also says she isnt looking,i just smile when she says that.
That's your problem there. If you like a girl and you want her, being friends is the worst thing. It leads you to being platonic and not being a male. You have to be sexual if you want her to get emotionally invested in you meaning that you must fuck her as quickly as you can.
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