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| Author: | Barldd [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 9:24 am ] |
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Hey guys! Been gaming a few girls for practice over FB, then getting numbers (sometimes I text, sometimes I don't) I know theres the whole attitude of "I don't care if I get you or not", and I feel like I've adopted it well, because as I 'practice', I try different things to see what works and what doesn't and make note of it next time, and don't really mind if I screw up (so basically, gaming girls that I'm not to fussed on, 6's etc) The problem I'm having is, I want to game without sounding like an asshole. When I think about what to say, I try to incorporate that I don't really care, but every sentence that I come up with sounds like I'm a fucking dick. I try to push-pull, but it just looks like I'm trying way to hard to be funny (from my point of view), because I'm not trying the 'asshole' lines that I come up with. I don't want to be an asshole. I want to be nice, polite, funny and still show I don't care, but at this point in time, I'm having trouble pulling it all off together. Advice would be awesome, thanks in advance guys, and if you've got any more questions, shoot! |
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| Author: | Mr_Amazing [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 9:38 am ] |
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the "not caring" attitude doesnt translate well through texting/messaging in my opinion. Most people don't really have good reading comprehension skills. So save the asshole bit for when you get them in person. |
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| Author: | Barldd [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 9:44 am ] |
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I agree, to do it properly, you have to use a emotional face [  , :p etc], but doing that every 2nd line just looks gay haha. But why do you say 'save the asshole for face to face"? I don't want to be an asshole..What I'm trying to do I guess, is build up some comfort online/text to the point where I can get a meet up with them. I've done it once so far in the past 2 weeks, out of the 4? girls I've talked to soley on FB. |
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| Author: | G00FY [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 11:35 am ] |
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are you just meeting the girls through facebook or is it through social circle or cold approach then adding them? i agree its hard to express yourself over text/internet. my humour is very blunt so i often sound like im just being a nobhead! you can say whatever you like in person.. provided you have a smile on your face. i guess another way to 'not seem bothered' is just be busy when you are texting or FB-ing. take your time to respond. alsoif you feel you are trying to be funny then you arent actually coming from a place of not caring. you are talking to a few other girls aswell so come from an abundance mentality and be chilled! |
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| Author: | Barldd [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 8:02 am ] |
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It's a mixture really, one is an ex friends younger sister that I've said hi to here and there, a couple are friends of friends that I've never met and randomly added on FB, and then a couple are from cold approach. I just don't know how to ask them to hang out. I got one girl a couple weeks ago by saying "You're coming to the mall with me, I need some new clothes and I sure as hell have no idea what to get.." (Or something along those lines) A couple days later I tried saying something like "I'm taking you to the movies" but that didn't really work, and I don't want to sound need by asking again, so gave up there. I just keep trying and see what works I guess |
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