PUA Forum :: Do you answer truthfully?

I think this was brought up in another topic and the general consensus, similar to my own opinion, is that you should never give her a direct answer. There is no "right" answer anyway. If it's too many, you look like a player; if it's too few, you look like a...loser? Bitch? Call it what you will.

There's a myriad of responses you can give her, but your best bet is to start by joking about it. I like to hold up my fists and start raising a finger every few seconds while looking deep in thought to pretend that I can hardly keep track of them all, then give her a "just fucking with you" smile. At that point, the subject can be changed. If she goes right back to it and asks you for a serious answer, I would tell her that you don't think that's important and you see no point in discussing it.

Author:	Looksgoodnaked [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 4:34 am ]
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If a girl asks you how many girls have you been with, how many have you fucked, etc. do you be honest with her? What if you've never been in a serious relationship, should you lie or what.

Author:	Snarg [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 4:40 am ]
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I think this was brought up in another topic and the general consensus, similar to my own opinion, is that you should never give her a direct answer. There is no "right" answer anyway. If it's too many, you look like a player; if it's too few, you look like a...loser? Bitch? Call it what you will. There's a myriad of responses you can give her, but your best bet is to start by joking about it. I like to hold up my fists and start raising a finger every few seconds while looking deep in thought to pretend that I can hardly keep track of them all, then give her a "just fucking with you" smile. At that point, the subject can be changed. If she goes right back to it and asks you for a serious answer, I would tell her that you don't think that's important and you see no point in discussing it.

Author:	Looksgoodnaked [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 10:43 pm ]
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Quote: I think this was brought up in another topic and the general consensus, similar to my own opinion, is that you should never give her a direct answer. There is no "right" answer anyway. If it's too many, you look like a player; if it's too few, you look like a...loser? Bitch? Call it what you will. There's a myriad of responses you can give her, but your best bet is to start by joking about it. I like to hold up my fists and start raising a finger every few seconds while looking deep in thought to pretend that I can hardly keep track of them all, then give her a "just fucking with you" smile. At that point, the subject can be changed. If she goes right back to it and asks you for a serious answer, I would tell her that you don't think that's important and you see no point in discussing it. So basically, either way you lose. There is no answer that can make her feel comfortable; either you're a player or a loser. Dodging the question makes you seem shady and saying it's not important tells her you're self-conscious. FML.

Author:	Chris2k10 [ Fri Mar 09, 2012 12:36 am ]
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Just say, "I've had my fair share."

Author:	Cognizant1 [ Fri Mar 09, 2012 2:51 am ]
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Quote: If a girl asks you how many girls have you been with, how many have you fucked, etc. do you be honest with her? What if you've never been in a serious relationship, should you lie or what. "Enough to know what I'm doing" BOo ya! Infers you know how to please a woman and have experience but not to the point of being a male slut/player.

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Author:	pumpington [ Fri Mar 09, 2012 11:06 am ]
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you should do your best to always be honest, but that does not mean you have to practise full dis-closure, if you have to lie about something or are thinking about lieing, you might as well just not tell the person, if she asks that question, there are a plethora of possible answers you could come up with, but the important thing is when a girl is asking you qualifiers that could dis-qualify you, you dis-close as little about yourself as possible, keep in mind this does not mean NEVER SPEAK ABOUT YOURSELF AT ALL, you will find trouble connecting with a girl if you cant find commonalities and interests that you share, and stay closed off distant and stoic during your time with her, you want to however avoid dis-closing information about yourself that could be a deal breaker without making her either dis-close information on a similar level, or work hard for that information things such as financial status, age, how many girls you have been with, sexual history, what kind of person you are, religious views, political views, history of drug use all these things that could potentially dis-qualify you, should be met with limited dis-closure, as well as when she attempts to get you to prove yourself to her should be met with answers that either evade the question, request investment from her first, or simply refuse to dis-close her:how many girls have you been with possible answers: -this week? -enough -wouldn't you like to know -no comment -no more interviews -lets go do xyz and maybe I'll tell you -that is sort of personal, why do you ask? -I donno -look, I see what you're doing, and I suppose you can be my girl #6, as I have 9 girls right now... they just don't know it yet

Author:	desertEagle [ Fri Mar 09, 2012 6:57 pm ]
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see... i was honest and even she told me i should ahve lied ....lying is never a good way to start building a relationship, but you need t know the person your pursuing. in my case... i had only had sex with 1 girl ... she had had sex with 22 guys and 4 girls .... it didint end well for me but then agian i knew what i was getting myself into...thats just my experience

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