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| Author: | DustyDan [ Wed Mar 07, 2012 10:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | My First and Hopefully Last Post (Need Words from the Wise) |
Okay Ive spent nearly a month reading forums, the game, Mystery Method and watched the MM DVDs. I realize I could spend months, years learning more and more "theory" but it will get me no where. I now have a basic understanding of PU and need to learn from the field! All of the greats seemed to get great by simply consistantly sarging and thats what I want to do! I will be sarging alone, day and night game. On weekends ill probably go to bars "with" friends, but will still sarge alone. I just have a few questions from some of you guys that have transformed yourselves: 1. There are a few noob missions ive heard of (mysterys 50 approach elvis script, neils stylelife 30day challenge, and just saying hi to 50 people). I might do the stylelifechallenge as a bonus. But I want to know if im better off just memorizing say Jeleous GF opener and doing that for 50 approaches until ive internalized it? Or if im better off just building a small routine stack (Opener, FTC, Neg, Finish Opener, IVD C smile, then eject). I just want to know the best way to start, i feel like the saying hi to 50 people is just a dumb place to start as it teaches me nothing. 2. Id like to start with one sets (as I feel that will be easiest) in the day (sticking to the M3 Model) to practice before hitting up nightclubs alot. Because obviously doing a noobie type mission in a nightclub is a bad idea. Where do you guys go to sarge in the day, without making yourself look predatory? I mean BradP said he got good sarging 5hrs a day 7days a week, but was also a travelling musician. Mystery started performing street magic and transitioned from there. Where does the average joe go. Do you just walk around wal-mart all day pretending to have a friend with a Jealous GF? I mean if I wasnt at work, it was the gym, or home or friends. I never shop or walk around for the hell of it. Thanks in advance |
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| Author: | lolaskate [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 12:03 am ] |
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The level of mental masturbation here is TOO DAMN HIGH. first-get-laid-the-30-day-challenge-vt127109.html Try this link. I didn't use it but it seems very good. You are overcomplicating everything, by reading this shit about Mystery method. Don't worry about memorising lines, and creating routines and trying to plan out every single situation. Because you know what? It won't go to plan, and almost always, you'll panic and think on the spot trying to think of a new routine. Cut out the routines, Just open with a simple Hi As for Conversations, I know you might think you need to think up a script to keep a conversation but you don't. Just be genuine and express yourself. You think she's so hot she should be locked up? Use that. You think she looks like a stripper? say that (maybe not this one while your a nooby but I say it all the time) You think she looks like a type of girl to be a lawyer? Ask her, or just say it. Don't ask too many questions, you ask a question when you want to know something. So obviously it's a little weird to want to know everything about a girl. Assume the answers instead of questions, guess the answer to the question you want to know, and then put it in the form of a statement. ie. What do you do for a living? - You think she's a bartender so say, You're a bartender aren't you? You probably need to fix up your Inner game whilst doing this though, build up some confidence and what not. In terms of stand alone methods from commercial PUAs. Look up a guy called 60 Years of Challenge. It's amazing. Also forget everything you know about Mystery Method. |
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| Author: | DustyDan [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 1:45 am ] |
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I can talk to girls. If im at a house party or something I talk to girls alot. Making boring small talk is my problem. Thats all I ever do. Hi, whats up. What you do, this party is gay or good, blah blah BORING... Then the conversation stalls. Then I walk away because im out of things to say. Why would I forget everything I know from Mystery Method. I need to apply it so im not just spitting AFC fluff talk. Thats the problem. |
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| Author: | Taste D'Wayne Bowe [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 4:07 am ] |
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Simple pickup helped me the most. I like one of their tips which is say the first thing that comes out into your head. Your getting too nervous when you talk to girls. Say whatever comes to your head. The opener really doesn't matter. She knows your hitting on her no matter what. So say whatever comes to your head and escalate. |
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| Author: | AmazingArt [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 4:27 am ] |
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Taste made a good point. You got to say whatever comes to your head. Girls are not stupid they understand that guys like to hit on girls. Girls also like to hit on guys but the society prevents them from doing that. They therefore wait for the guy to make the move. So being natural and not hiding anything is the best thing you can do. You know I have read books for many months hours upon hours only to realize the most important par of learning PUA is to actually do it in the field. If this seems like a really big stride for you then start off with the smallest things. Make yourself a goal to approach 40 girls a day and ask for the time. Then when you feel you have a good grip on that move on and on. Practice makes one proficient and efficient. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 4:51 am ] |
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mm is obsolete, learn game the right way, get 60 yoc, and the attraction code by vindicarlo or minimal game by aaron sleazy, got to youtube look for rsd free tour channel and go to the simple pick up crew channel watch a video a day, with that being said, i like the lifestyle challenge somewhat by styles i like that newbe mission.. http://www.aaronsleazy.com/files/Aaron. ... munity.pdf here learn a bit of gunwitch is free: http://gunwitch.fastseduction.com/ |
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